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May 31st, 2010, 07:49 PM
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I lost the baby tonight. I started bleeding bright red and I had some pee from this morning (that I hadn't tested) and I tested it and the HPT was totally negative.

The only "good" thing about this is that I'm glad it happened now rather than me getting further along like I did last time.

I'm sad, but I know I'll get through this. We will keep trying and I will have another baby someday, one way or another.

I'm not sure if there is something wrong with my progesterone, if this could be because I'm breastfeeding, or if it's just "one of those things" so I am not really sure what to do for next time. I sure wish I knew so I don't have to go through this again. I never thought I'd have 3 pregnancies and only one baby. After Matthew, I was hoping that I'd put pregnancy loss behind me.

I told my Dh in the car, "I guess things are never easy for us, huh?"

I was looking out the window on the way home at the clouds and remembering something from a blog I was reading the other day of a woman whose baby died shortly after birth from genetic problems. "God is still the same as he was yesterday." So I trust in that and I am so thankful for the little boy I snuggled tonight and even though things are not easy they are worth it.

So sooner or later it will happen for us. It just hurts that it can't be now and it can't be this baby.
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May 31st, 2010, 07:53 PM
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Big hugs,Shannon. I'm sorry that this has happened to you again but you have a beauitufl outlook on it.
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May 31st, 2010, 08:06 PM
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I am so sorry you have to go through this again.
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May 31st, 2010, 08:11 PM
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Im sorry
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May 31st, 2010, 08:24 PM
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You have such a postive look on things, even while facing such a sad situation. You are such a strong women.

BIG HUGS honey.
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May 31st, 2010, 08:29 PM
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oh sweetie i'm so sorry you have to go through this.
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May 31st, 2010, 08:49 PM
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oh dear. I'm so sorry to hear this awful news. I'll be thinking about you guys for sure.

It's so tough but your right, it's SO worth it. Hugs and cuddles to your baby boy.
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May 31st, 2010, 09:15 PM
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Im sorry Shannon You are definitely strong about the whole Situation. Were all here for you.
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June 1st, 2010, 01:33 AM
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Oh Shannon I'm so sorry hun xx
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June 1st, 2010, 02:15 AM
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*hugs* again! I know what you mean when you say. "I never thought i'd have 3 pregnancies and only one baby" I'm unfortunatley there too, that is if baby boy is healthy . It sounds like you are coping well, and I'm sure God will bless you with another LO soon. Take your time as you greive though. i know it is never easy.
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June 1st, 2010, 03:18 AM
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I'm so saddened to be reading this I'm so sorry Shannon. You know you can PM me if you need a chat or anything. (((((huggles)))))
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June 1st, 2010, 03:47 AM
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June 1st, 2010, 04:21 AM
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June 1st, 2010, 04:32 AM
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I'm so sorry Shannon. Huge HUGS to you.
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June 1st, 2010, 05:58 AM
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Oh no I'm so sorry to hear this Shannon.
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June 1st, 2010, 06:16 AM
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June 1st, 2010, 06:53 AM
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Im so sorry Shannon, miscarriages are one of the hardest things to deal with in my opinion.
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June 1st, 2010, 06:59 AM
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Im sorry your having to go through this x
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June 1st, 2010, 08:28 AM
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I am so sorry this happened to you. I admire your outlook on it, thinking positively will really help you get through the lowest part of this and come out on the other, better side (and you KNOW there is one).
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June 1st, 2010, 09:06 AM
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Sorry Shannon. I love your quote from that blog. Great way to look at this.
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