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Mamma to Mia
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Join Date: Feb 2007
Location: Grimsby, England
Posts: 19,304
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I saw someone I went to school with today and she tells me someone she used to go around with is now pregnant.... with her 3rd child. This child is also expected to go into care.
I didnt know what to say other then 'She clearly dosent realise how lucky she is' then made my exuses and left.
I was so upset  Why is it so easy for her to keep poppin babies out like they are going out of fashion when me and others are struggling to even get a chance at being pregnant for the 1st or 2nd time?!
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Apr 2007
Location: Barbados
Posts: 18,988
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I totally understand what you mean and have asked the same question many times. It's just very unfortunate.
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jun 2006
Location: Canada
Posts: 10,199
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it sure doesn't make any sense to me.
sorry. what a crappy day.
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Jul 2006
Location: New Zealand
Posts: 4,882
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People should have to get a licence to have children. Life is truly so unfair sometimes
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Mamma to Mia
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Join Date: Feb 2007
Location: Grimsby, England
Posts: 19,304
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I will also add.... we've only been left school 5yrs aswell.
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Molly Ann born Feb 13th 2012 weighing 6lb1oz
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Mar 2008
Location: Rochester NY
Posts: 12,280
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*Hugs* these people seriously piss me off!
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Feb 2006
Location: Hagerstown, MD
Posts: 23,058
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((HUGS)) I've wondered the same thing
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Oct 2007
Posts: 8,102
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they just dont know how lucky they are......that is just awful......
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: May 2005
Location: NJ
Posts: 10,429
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I agree, they don't know how lucky they are. You're right, its not fair.
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Dec 2008
Location: Northern VA
Posts: 7,874
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Yeah I just dont understand how some mothers dont see how lucky they are too to be able to successfully reproduce without even trying in most cases. I consider myself extremely blessed.
And I dont understand how some women can eat whatever, drink their lives away, smoke, do drugs, etc and get prego soooo easily but women who eat healthy, drink in moderation, dont or rarely smoke, married, etc have hard times. Life can be so unfair.
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: Canada
Posts: 10,835
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Oh, Emma, I'm so sorry That ISN'T fair.
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Apr 2008
Location: St. Louis, MO
Posts: 14,102
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Quote:
Originally Posted by ~ChelNae6~
Yeah I just dont understand how some mothers dont see how lucky they are too to be able to successfully reproduce without even trying in most cases. I consider myself extremely blessed.
And I dont understand how some women can eat whatever, drink their lives away, smoke, do drugs, etc and get prego soooo easily but women who eat healthy, drink in moderation, dont or rarely smoke, married, etc have hard times. Life can be so unfair.
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Completely agree with every word Its so unfair. I graduated high school 6 years ago and there are some girls who are having their 3rd and 4th kids  While I wanted to be a young mom, but I waited until we had a nice house and were stable in our relationship AND income, and have been struggling to do that for 18 months!!!!!!
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Cycle #1-9 - All Natural....5BFN's, 4BFP's (all ended in miscarriage) Cycle #10-11 - Met with first RE, diagnosed with heterzygeous MTHFR mutation & slightly low SA on all counts. -BFN, Cycle #12 - First IUI+Trigger - BFN, Cycle #13 - BFN Cycle #14-15 - Met with new RE, diagnosed with a blocked right tube that previous RE completely overlooked or didnt care to mention. Soy (120mg) - BFN Cycle #16 - Clomid (100mg) - BFN, Cycle #17 - Clomid (100mg)+Trigger+IUI - BFN Cycle #18 - Acupuncture+Clomid (100mg) - BFN Cycle #19-27 - 2 Soy (160mg) cycles, the rest all natural also 30lbs lost!! - BFN's Cycle #28 - New RE is GREAT! Put on bcp 7/6/11, Lap surgery 8/1/11- Tubal cyst (5cm) found and removed, Uterine Septum removed, and Stage II-III endo removed. Cycle #29 - All Natural - BFN, Cycle #30 - All Natural - BFN, Cycle#31 - All Natural - BFN, DONE TTC FOR NOW
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Dec 2006
Location: Chicagoland
Posts: 5,117
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I agree, it is unfair... and I know it is something we don't have going on around here much but some women do struggle with unplanned pregnancies as well... sometimes it seems to me that life tends to hand people whatever they DON'T want. I hope this woman's babies are being adopted into families who truly want and can care for them.
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Life is so cruel at times, it's just so unfair.
(((((Emma)))))
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