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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: May 2005
Location: NJ
Posts: 10,429
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I'm ordering my babyhawk this week but I'm stumped on what to get. The practical side of me says to go gender neutral in case we have another baby (still up in the air on whether I want another one in a couple years). But the other side really wants to get a more girly pattern. What do you think?
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Mar 2008
Posts: 6,553
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I would go gender neutral if you are thinking of having another. I tried to keep most of the reusable stuff gender neutral and just went all out on girly clothes to satisfy my need for girly stuff! What is a babyhawk btw?
I love your new siggy! The boys look so grown up and Lila is just precious!
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Super Moderator
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Join Date: Sep 2005
Location: Georgia
Posts: 33,072
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My thinking is that you're the one wearing it, so if you want a girly one and then later on have a boy... so what? Or you could always sell/trade for a different pattern if you have a boy later. What if you have another baby and its a girl, kwim? Go for it!
Oh, but would DH wear it if its girly?
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Nov 2005
Location: Indianapolis, IN
Posts: 14,576
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I'd go girly if that is what you really want to get. If you have another it could be a girl. I'd still use a girly carrier on a boy if I already had it. To me it's not a big deal. Also, you could sell it if you have another boy and get something different.
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: May 2005
Location: NJ
Posts: 10,429
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Thanks! I think I will go with the more girly one. DH will still wear it, he doesn't care about that kind of thing. And you're right, I can still wear it even if we have another boy at some point. I'm just so tired of gender neutral and all things boy. I like being able to buy some more girly things.
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Apr 2008
Location: St. Louis, MO
Posts: 14,102
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Quote:
Originally Posted by LadyCoconut
My thinking is that you're the one wearing it, so if you want a girly one and then later on have a boy... so what? Or you could always sell/trade for a different pattern if you have a boy later. What if you have another baby and its a girl, kwim? Go for it!
Oh, but would DH wear it if its girly?
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 I would totally get the girly one if it were me! You'll have to show us pics once you get it!
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nakmaster
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Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: Western NY
Posts: 8,401
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See, I ordered mine gender neutral and even asked DH "Would you wear this pattern?" and he said "sure".
Guess how many times he has worn Nolan? ZERO. I've begged him and begged him to do it (especially now that he is flippin HEAVY) and he always says "That's okay".
So get what YOU want - it's really YOUR carrier, haha. I do love what I picked, I think I just would have gone with one side a little girlie if I knew I would have the option too, haha.
So get wh
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jan 2008
Location: Depends on the day....Earth :D
Posts: 28,954
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Ditto the others....get the one YOU want and if need be sell it/change it later.
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: May 2005
Location: NJ
Posts: 10,429
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So its settled, I'm gettin' the more girly one!
DH wore the boys a lot so I know he'll use it too, and he doesn't care if its entirely pink, so I'll just get what I want! And maybe I will get a totally pink one, the boys said I should.
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Sep 2006
Posts: 10,854
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Get the girly one I think. you can always sell it and buy something else if you have another boy and want a boyish one. I know some ppl trade them too to try and get the pattern they want. Or at least they do with becos
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Apr 2007
Location: Barbados
Posts: 18,988
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Guess I'm late and the decision has already been made. 
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Thank you Helen for my beautiful siggy!
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Oct 2007
Location: San Diego, CA
Posts: 6,194
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I want to see which one you got/get. I am thinking about getting an Oh snap one when this baby is bigger.
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