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  #1  
June 14th, 2010, 12:17 PM
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[I'm x-posting this from my PR... ]

So yesterday we had cake at my mom's house for my birthday. My mom's downstairs floor is all pretty open, but we were in the dining room which has a door to the kitchen. So we're in there finishing up cake, and I think DH was holding Lily. Well she started coughing like crazy. Then she started to kind of sneeze and was still coughing. My step-dad was like huh, and took her through the kitchen and into the living room. She continued to cough in there. DH took her from him and brought her outside to get some fresh air, and in the mean time... other people started sneezing. It was SO weird. People's eyes started burning and people were coughing and sneezing. We discovered it was when people walked through the kitchen that his intensified. People were trying to figure out what it was and were getting concerned it was some kind of gas leak or something. Finally I go outside and down under the porch by the pool to where DH and the baby were. In the mean time my mom is worried thinking maybe the free-on (?) or something is leaking in the refridgerator... no one can figure out what the problem is. My step dad is trying to figure out who to call b/c something is clearly wrong. My MIL, my 96 ˝ year old granny, and aunt are still in the dining room with the cake but they have the door shut to try to block whatever it is that's causing the problems from floating into that room. My sister's 40 year old fiance comes down and is under the porch with DH and I and grabs an ice cube from the cooler and is like shoving it up his nose. He then confesses that he grabbed my cousin's keychain, and SET OFF HER PEPPER SPRAY! On purpose!!!!! And he didn't plan on telling anyone!! So DH is like what the hell man, they're up there about to call in someone to help... you can't not say anything! So he goes up stairs to inform everyone of what's going on... at the same time my cousin's husband (who is a cop!) shows up and walks in and instantly figures out what's going on. So the cop comes down by the pool and calls my nephews (3 teenage boys) around to him, and is all "I don't know which one of you decided to play with my wife's pepperspray..." and then my sister's 40 yr old fiance is like "oh that was me." and the cop goes off about how strong it is, and how it can send children and the elderly into respitory failure b/c it has blah blah blah in it and is so strong blah blah and basically gave him this big cop speech. But yeah, my 4 month old baby is COUGHING and CANT BREATHE in there and this ********* doesn't say "oh by the way, its because of the pepperspray I just sprayed in the kitchen!" WTH?! and my 96˝ year old granny who has had breathing difficulty in the past is still up there in it! He could have killed them!!!

Ugh, what a ******.

Then later on I see him sitting on my mom's big swing/chair thing by the pool smoking a cigarette. I watch the cherry fall off and burn a hole into her chair, and then I see him like brush it off with his hand, and slide over to just sit on it. Like we wouldn't know it was him... he's the only smoker! haha.

Ugh, I just couldn't believe that a grown man wasn't going to own up to what he did when there are babies and elderly up there not able to breathe, and the rest of the house is in a panic!

ETA: when did doosh (except spelled correctly) get censored?
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June 14th, 2010, 12:37 PM
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He's 40 years old??? My word, someone needs to grow up... and perhaps not PLAY with things he shouldn't and OWN up to it when he does.

That's horrible.

Was the cake good??
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June 14th, 2010, 12:46 PM
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What a jerk. He must not know how to behave like a grown up man.

I wanna know if the cake was good too?!?
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June 14th, 2010, 12:49 PM
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WOW. That's ridiculous!!!
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June 14th, 2010, 12:54 PM
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How idiotic!!!

*waiting on the "was the cake good?" response.
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June 14th, 2010, 12:56 PM
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What a tool! The guys sounds like a real winner.

When I was in high school some moron sprayed pepper spray in the hallway so many people had to walk through it (including me), that stuff is strong.
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June 14th, 2010, 01:07 PM
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Wow, im shocked that a grown man couldnt own up to what he did, but even more shocked that he was playing around like a little kid! Why would he even think to do something like that, on purpose? What an idiot!

Poor Lily! And poor granny!
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June 14th, 2010, 01:09 PM
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OMG !!! How bloody idiotic !!!!
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June 14th, 2010, 01:24 PM
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What a tool bag!

So wait, I can't say that I douche once a month?
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June 14th, 2010, 01:25 PM
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I would be furious! Clearly this isn't the first "dooshy" stunt he's pulled, jerk off.
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June 14th, 2010, 02:10 PM
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OMG what a jerk! Are Lily and your granny ok now? And everyone else?
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June 14th, 2010, 02:14 PM
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OMG that is just BRU-TELL, what an idiot.
i'd be livid!
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June 14th, 2010, 02:35 PM
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I would have went off on him!!! What an idiot!!!
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June 14th, 2010, 03:43 PM
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Wow. What a doosh. Just every part of that story is makes him a bigger doosh. I bet your sister was mortified. I'm glad you guys got Lily out of tere and your granny safe in time!
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June 14th, 2010, 03:56 PM
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The cake was just okay. I think Kroger bakery cakes are gross, and so does pretty much everyone else in my family, but Ben missed the memo and that's where he got it from. I mean, cake is cake, but theirs isn't that good. My cousin (the one who went to the water park) made me funfetti cupcakes b/c she knows they're my favorite... and she also put several free admission tickets to the waterpark in my card, so we've made plans and Ben is going to have some one on one time with Lily on father's day while I go to the waterpark!!! win-win! haha.

and my sister wasn't embarassed like she should have been by her fiance... oh well.
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June 14th, 2010, 04:43 PM
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I'm sorry Shannon. My sis never apologizes for her DH either and he's often sketchy. I cannot BELIEVE that happened. Is ********* censored?
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June 14th, 2010, 05:14 PM
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Ugh, and your sister plans to marry this guy?? Clearly he isn't dealing with a full deck of cards and has piss poor judgement. Not exactly someone I'd like to merge my fiances with, live with forever, and raise a family with. She needs a serious 'come to jesus' talk about this guy. Glad everyone there is ok.
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June 14th, 2010, 05:34 PM
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Omg, some people really lack any common sense!! I would have been soooo mad, especially having it effect my baby.
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June 14th, 2010, 05:38 PM
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Ugh, and your sister plans to marry this guy?? Clearly he isn't dealing with a full deck of cards and has piss poor judgement. Not exactly someone I'd like to merge my fiances with, live with forever, and raise a family with. She needs a serious 'come to jesus' talk about this guy. Glad everyone there is ok.
100%!!! You are much nicer than I am, I would have FLIPPED OUT on the guy and then my sister for her poor judgement in men. Shoved them both in the pool and left!

Okay, maybe I went overboard!
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June 14th, 2010, 06:45 PM
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Yeah he's a real winner Everyone in the family has made this clear, especially after he ran into DH at a gas station a couple years ago after they got engaged and said "yeah, I just put the damm ring on her finger to shut her the hell up" ... we're all kind of hoping that this long engagement with no date in mind will mean they don't actually get married.
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