[Alison81]

Can't believe how judged I am here. I never judged anyone. I can guarantee that nobody here is perfect. I am sure nobody's relationships are perfect. I haven't been sharing as much here and I could use support but obviously so many of you think badly of me and I don't feel comfortable sharing anything anymore. And yes I am pregnant, had two pos frer's and it is Kylie's dad.

[bittersweet]

I see that I've missed much of the details here and on FB in regards to you and SO. I just read through the closed post and I can understand why you are not staying.

As much as people say not to judge others, everyone does so in some shape and form. The choices we make and the things we share affect how others think and feel about us. I sincerely hope this is a something you are happy about, for you and your family. If this is something you are regretting, I hope it prompts you to move forward and make better choices. Best of luck with this little one. You are a great momma to your girls and will be to this one also.

[*krista*]

I'm so sorry for how that thread went down Alison. You are a sweet person and you really didn't deserve that. I totally understand why you are leaving, although I don't like to see you go. I'm wishing you the best with your pregnancy.

ETA: I feel partially responsible for all of this. I didn't mean to provoke the bickering, I knew if it started it would only be to your detriment. Again, I'm really truely sorry.

Big, huge hugs.

[LisanAndy]

I've had some time to reflect on all this through last night and today and I'm feeling kinda cruddy about it all. I keep coming back here because I love the girls here, I truly do, I've been here for quite a while, but I think I at least need to take a break. All this drama has made me think things that aren't always the greatest and have made me realize I'm being judgmental. I feel it in my spirit that even though I may believe something doesn't mean I have to share those feelings to hurt someone else. I don't know the background to your life, who am I to judge? I've done some things in my life I wish I could change and had people judge me for them, even when I knew it wasn't the best decision and it killed me. That being said, I'm sorry if I hurt you Alison. I don't know how your relationship is with him, just going by what we know (since you're not very active anymore which is cool, I understand, you're busy!) was that it was bad and you were over it. That's why so many of us jumped to conclusions about it all. Once again, I'm sorry you've been put through this hurt if any of it was because of me. I hope you and Kylie's dad can or have worked things out and I hope all is well with the new baby.

(((((Ali)))))

I'm shocked at what has been said, I'm sorry you had to be the latest person to bare the brunt of some sour words on this board.

[sara~b]

I'm sorry a few sour grapes have to spoil the whole bunch. I know you will be a wonderful mom to your new baby. I hope R comes around steps up for the new little one as well. Since no one has yet said it I will: CONGRATULATIONS! You deserve nothing but happiness and joy in your life and I wish you and your girls and your coming bundle nothing but peace and love. (((HUGS)))

[Mars]

Obviously I missed something. Now I have to go see what happened.

Whatever it was, I'm sorry Allison. You're a great person and have been through a lot. I gather from the last part of your thread that you're pregnant. Congratulations! I hope that everything works out.

(((HUGS)))

[Oriyan]

Congrats on the BFP :-) Are you hoping for a boy this time?

Unfortunately, everyone is going to always be judgmental of everyone else -- that is how life works. We ALL do it to EVERYONE and it gets worse when kids are involved. However, those thoughts and opinions should be kept to ones self, discussed on the debate board or discussed in private.

[Trannyfromtheuk]

Congrats on your pregnancy.

As much as I can see it from both points of view I think its a shame its come to this and more memembers feel the need to leave

[szczepanski]

I do need to apologize. I am sorry that my post hurt you, it was meant just in a funny way. It is hard though, after everything you went through while you were pregnant with Kylie - between her dad, the girl he was seeing, etc - to see you put yourself in this situation again. Especially when it can be prevented, my initial reaction was how could it happen when you already have been through SO MUCH (and I'm not just talking about the situation with Kylie's dad). So it was just hard for me to grasp why you could let this happen, especially with someone who hasn't been the greatest in the past. But I also understand now you are probably scared...it's just hard to offer support to someone who goes through this very frequently. I'm just being 100% honest.

But whoever said it was right - sometimes you have to think about the PERSON behind the keyboard and not just the situation. Next time I will just keep my big mouth shut. So that said I'm sorry and congrats on your pregnancy and I hope things work out the way you want them to.

[soImarriedAnerd]

I said it in the last one and I just wanted to say it again! CONGRATS!!! I'm so happy for you! When is your due date, how are you feeling, make sure you keep me posted via FB or something if you still feel you need to leave because of a select few.
Oh and have you told him yet? If so how did that go?

[Frozendesire]

Well I just want to say Congratulations. I can understand everyone's feelings in this situation but I to feel things went to far. I hope you decide not to leave, although I can understand why you would want to.

[.Brandi.]

Well, I'm so sorry for all the nasty things that were said about you and to you. All of it was completely uncalled for! I think you're a super sweet person and I'm FAR from perfect. My relationship with my husband is better now than it was, but we still have issues. All marriages and courtships have problems. There are days when my children get on my last nerve. I've never passed judgement on others here. I can't believe the things that were said and what was said shouldn't have been said in the first place!

I also extend my Congrats to you. All babies, whether their conception is an intention or a accident, are a blessing!

[ScottishBrit]

Im sorry Alison. Congrat's!!!! Im excited for you.

[LadyGamer]

I'm sorry to see you leave. Congratulations on your new precious gift Sorry we can't share it with you

[Mod-LadyCoconut]

I'm not going to ask you to stay, because after what all was said, I think leaving is completely understandable. But know that I'd LIKE for you to stay and share things with us, but I'm not going to be selfish and expect that. I'm really sorry that you came here for support and got responses like you did.

[~*Bethy*~]

WOAH :O

apparently I missed something! (went back and read...) and Im not one for forgetting, but I do forgive. I think its AWESOME your pregnant! I hope nothing but the best for you and the girls (and maybe a little boy??) I hope we can ALL remember that not everyone is perfect, and we ALL have skeletons in the closet

~Beth

[.Brandi.]

Originally Posted by LadyCoconut

I'm not going to ask you to stay, because after what all was said, I think leaving is completely understandable. But know that I'd LIKE for you to stay and share things with us, but I'm not going to be selfish and expect that. I'm really sorry that you came here for support and got responses like you did.

100%!! What was said shouldn't have been said! Even if it was how they felt!

Alison, remember opinions are like bumholes...everyone's got one...some just stink more than others!

[soImarriedAnerd]

lmao

[~*sierra*~]

lol brandi!