I just found out that even if I have a home birth, I can still transfer to a birth centre afterwards and stay for 4-5 days! It's the best birth centre in the country (actually, it's were I was born), but as it's 1.5 hours drive away, soneither DF or myself are very happy about trying to give birth there.
If all goes well with this pregnancy, we'll go check the place out in a few months.
The one thing I was concerned about post-birth was the support I'd get with breastfeeding etc, so this could be the perfect solution. Although DF thinks the baby will be too 'small' to transfer to a birth centre after the birth

He's so cute!