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July 7th, 2010, 07:53 PM
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So as some of you know, I work in a doctors office. Today a woman came in to bring her mother for an appt and had a newborn with her. She started bfing in the waiting room WITH A COVER.. well my 49 year old single coworker with no children of her own, made a comment about how rude and disgusting it is when people do that. She started rolling her eyes etc.. I whipped out a magazine and went straight for an ad. I asked her what she found more "disgusting" the woman FEEDING her child in the waiting room or the woman in the ad with only a bra and underwear on? She rolled her eyes and said how the waiting room isnt the place. I continued to ask her what was wrong with the woman feeding her child in the most natural way possible!? She decided to just shut up because I wasnt going to let her win!

Ok thats all it just irritated me the rest of the day by thinking about it so I had to share!
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July 7th, 2010, 08:03 PM
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July 7th, 2010, 08:40 PM
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That's awesome that you stood up for her! ugh some people, I just can't stand it either!
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July 7th, 2010, 08:45 PM
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You go, girl!!!!
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July 7th, 2010, 08:49 PM
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On behalf of all the grateful breastfeeding mamas everywhere, THANK YOU!
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July 7th, 2010, 10:52 PM
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July 8th, 2010, 01:36 AM
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July 8th, 2010, 01:58 AM
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July 8th, 2010, 05:45 AM
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Yay! You did a good thing.

I will never understand why people are offended by a woman breastfeeding, I just don't get it.
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July 8th, 2010, 05:55 AM
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July 8th, 2010, 06:33 AM
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that is awesome! i dont get why people are offended by BF mothers either. like yes, she is feeding her kid JUST to offend you. Pfff! people are so dumb sometimes.
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July 8th, 2010, 08:25 AM
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OMG! Me, Nikki, and Heather were in a debate the other day on FB with some woman too! I just dont understand she is FEEDING her child, not flashing her bbs for sexual reasons or something! People dont understand that is what breasts are for! Ugh!
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July 8th, 2010, 08:30 AM
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OMG! Me, Nikki, and Heather were in a debate the other day on FB with some woman too! I just dont understand she is FEEDING her child, not flashing her bbs for sexual reasons or something! People dont understand that is what breasts are for! Ugh!
Boobs are fun bags, not meant for something as icky as nourishing and bonding with a BABY!
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July 8th, 2010, 08:56 AM
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Boobs are fun bags, not meant for something as icky as nourishing and bonding with a BABY!

Fun bags that must be hidden at ALL TIMES. Except on the beach. In magazines. In movies. On TV. And advertising.
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July 8th, 2010, 11:13 AM
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THANK YOU! I hope that woman thinks twice next time she ncounters someone NIP

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July 8th, 2010, 11:25 AM
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Cheers!!!!!

I just don't understand what is so offensive about feeding a child in public. I agree that it can be a bit weird if the person just has the boob there in the child's mouth with no cover but even then, it's what our boobs were created for. I say, use a cover and feed away!!!
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July 8th, 2010, 12:21 PM
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Fun bags that must be hidden at ALL TIMES. Except on the beach. In magazines. In movies. On TV. And advertising.
LOL Caroline!

I whip mine out everywhere and I use a cover when there are like a bunch of greasy men around or something, but not everytime. I've only gotten a couple of weird looks but no comments. Good thing too, or I'd put them in their place just like you did!
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July 8th, 2010, 12:27 PM
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Good job! I also do not understand what the problem is with that... especially with a cover on! That's what boobs are for... feeding! Glad you stood up for her!
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July 8th, 2010, 01:09 PM
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Good for you, girl!

I don't get it either. I've been very lucky and have never even gotten weird looks when NIP. I could understand if a woman had there boob just hanging there once the baby isn't latched anymore or something, but it's not different than a women sitting there with a bottle in her babies mouth. People need to just grow up.
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July 8th, 2010, 02:14 PM
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I bet she felt stupid for opening her mouth haha!!!
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