WTTC Graduates
For WTTC Members who are now TTC or pregnant.
Welcome to the JustMommies Message Boards.
We pride ourselves on having the friendliest
and most welcoming forums for moms and moms to be! Please take a moment
and register
for free so you can be a part of our growing community of mothers.
If you have any problems registering please drop an email to boards@justmommies.com.
Our community is moderated by our moderation team so you won't see spam or offensive messages posted on our forums. Each of our message boards is hosted by JustMommies hosts, whose names are listed at the top each board. We hope you find our message boards friendly, helpful, and fun to be on!
|
July 14th, 2010, 04:33 PM
|
|
Mega Super Mommy
|
|
Join Date: Jul 2006
Location: New Zealand
Posts: 4,882
|
|
|
Would you name your baby something you didn't like, just to honor someone in the family (middle name, not first name)?
I'd love to name my baby boy after my Dad, but Dad's name is kinda old fashion and not really to my taste... I haven't run this past DF yet, so he might not like it himself!!
__________________
~ Tasha ~
|
July 14th, 2010, 04:57 PM
|
 |
Objection!!!
|
|
Join Date: Jun 2008
Location: Toronto, ON
Posts: 11,769
|
|
|
We will be using middle names that aren't our style, but they are slowly growing on me, since we have had them picked out for a while already and still have even longer for them to grow on me.
Last edited by LadyGamer; July 14th, 2010 at 05:25 PM.
|
July 14th, 2010, 05:02 PM
|
|
Platinum Supermommy
|
|
Join Date: Oct 2008
Posts: 9,182
|
|
|
Yes.
My DD's name is my grandma's first name and my mom and I's middle name. To be perfectly honest, I questioned if I really wanted to name her that, but felt like if I didn't, I would be letting people down. The moment I saw her, though, she was Lorena Ann. Nothing else could ever have fit her, and now I LOVE her name.
If we have a boy, he will be named Vincent Robert, which is DH's grandpa's name reversed. I hated it at first, and still am not fond of the name Robert, but I love the idea that it is a family name and it has really grown on me.
__________________
[CENTER] Thanks to Becky (No.absolutes) for my beautiful siggy!
|
July 14th, 2010, 05:03 PM
|
 |
Platinum Supermommy
|
|
Join Date: Jun 2006
Location: Canada
Posts: 10,199
|
|
|
No I wouldn't. I think I would rather go with a name I liked, although I love that our boys names have alot of meaning, I also love that I love them!
|
July 14th, 2010, 05:05 PM
|
 |
Platinum Supermommy
|
|
Join Date: Mar 2008
Location: Rochester NY
Posts: 12,280
|
|
|
I'm no help lol. We're naming our son Theodore!
At the same time. Our "family" name on my side is Elmo. Do you think we'll be using it? I think not.
But i don't think its a bad thing to use a family name. I think older names sound very distinguished. See how it sounds with your chosen first time.
|
July 14th, 2010, 05:06 PM
|
 |
Platinum Superdupermommy
|
|
Join Date: Sep 2006
Location: Long Island, New York
Posts: 9,125
|
|
|
I was not crazy about my son having such a generic name, but i really wanted to name him after my cousin. So I did.
If we have a girl her middle name will be after DH's mom and I am not crazy about it at all.
__________________
Samantha (28), DH: Joe (32)
DS: Johnathan ("J.J") (2.5)
************************
Severe Male Factor Infertility
IVF#1 October 2008 - BFP (+6 frozen)
DS born: : July 22, 2009
FET#1: January 2012 (non-medicated, 1-AB blast) - BFN
FET #2: February 2012 (fully medicated)
|
July 14th, 2010, 05:08 PM
|
 |
Platinum Supermommy
|
|
Join Date: Sep 2007
Location: Montreal
Posts: 6,333
|
|
|
We need to love the name we pick. I wanted Theo for a boy, because I like it and in honor of my grandfather, but Chris doesn't like it so it's off the table (he kind of agreed to use it for a middle name though, so we'll see if it grows on him).
__________________
PLEASE DO NOT MENTION PREGNANCY ON FACEBOOK!
|
July 14th, 2010, 05:38 PM
|
|
Platinum Supermommy
|
|
Join Date: Oct 2007
Posts: 8,102
|
|
|
i prefer established names, rather than the newer types so using 'meaningful' names is fine with me!
|
July 14th, 2010, 05:51 PM
|
 |
Platinum Supermommy
|
|
Join Date: May 2005
Location: NJ
Posts: 10,430
|
|
|
Yup, I've done it twice. I don't like Liam or Lila's middle names but they're after dh's grandparents who are deceased. His grandma (Agnes) in particular he was very close to, I met her a few times and she was a great lady so while I don't like the name I like that we chose to honor her. His grandpa (Edward) he never met but was special to his dad and is also his dad's middle name, and its not too bad just not a name I'd choose. And if we have another girl someday her middle name (Mildred) will be after my Mom's Mom (she died when my Mom was 6). Again not a name I care for but I would love to honor her and so would my Mom.
Lochy shares dh's middle name (Erik) and I actually like it but his is the only one! And if we ever have another boy the middle name will be after my Dad (John) and I like his name so that'll be ok to.
The middle name rarely gets used anyway so it wasn't a huge deal to have a name I didn't "love" in that spot. I'd rather honor someone we love instead.
|
July 14th, 2010, 06:07 PM
|
 |
Platinum Supermommy
|
|
Join Date: Nov 2005
Location: Indianapolis, IN
Posts: 14,576
|
|
|
Yes, I would/did/will. Oliver has my grandfather's first name as his middle (Wilhelm). I do like it. If we have a girl the middle name will be Hanni after my deceased grandmother. I'm not crazy about it but she was special to me.
|
July 14th, 2010, 06:15 PM
|
 |
Platinum Supermommy
|
|
Join Date: Apr 2007
Location: Barbados
Posts: 18,988
|
|
|
If the name meant a lot to me or DH, even though I may not like the style, I would consider it. However, I chose names based on meaning so if it did not have a meaning that I liked that worked well with the other names then I wouldn't use it.
__________________
Thank you Helen for my beautiful siggy!
|
July 14th, 2010, 08:28 PM
|
|
Platinum Supermommy
|
|
Join Date: Mar 2008
Posts: 6,553
|
|
|
No, I don't think I would. Luckily I like our family name (J) and was able to combine it with my dad's name to make Charlotte's middle name, Jaelynn, which I love and have been planning on using since way before she was born.
|
July 14th, 2010, 08:45 PM
|
 |
Platinum Supermommy
|
|
Join Date: Mar 2005
Posts: 8,065
|
|
|
B has 2 middle names, one after my dad that I wanted since it is a family name and one after exdh's grandpa and I didn't like it much but I did it and I'm glad I did.
__________________

Thanks to Maitri for my wonderful siggy!
|
July 14th, 2010, 08:49 PM
|
 |
Platinum Supermommy
|
|
Join Date: Oct 2007
Location: San Diego, CA
Posts: 6,194
|
|
|
We are using family names for the middle names. Luckily we have some family names that we really like. I wouldn't pick something I specifically disliked though.
Last edited by JediRach; July 15th, 2010 at 04:59 AM.
|
July 14th, 2010, 08:57 PM
|
 |
Platinum Supermommy
|
|
Join Date: Jul 2007
Location: Earth
Posts: 6,570
|
|
|
I would! If I ever have a girl her middle name will be Nicole. I don't hate the name but its not at all my favorite name. Landen's middle name is Christopher after my dad!
|
July 15th, 2010, 04:18 AM
|
 |
Mamma to Mia
|
|
Join Date: Feb 2007
Location: Grimsby, England
Posts: 19,304
|
|
|
Mia has my middle name and I hope when shes older she will pass it on if she ever has kids.
If we have another girl their name will be Ami Ann, Ann is both Dh's and my mums middle name. If we have a boy their name will be Harry Robert, Robert after DH's deceased uncle.
__________________
Molly Ann born Feb 13th 2012 weighing 6lb1oz
|
July 15th, 2010, 05:32 AM
|
|
Mega Super Mommy
|
|
Join Date: Aug 2007
Location: Southern Germany
Posts: 4,229
|
|
|
No, I don't think I would. I would rather chose something we love and hope that our child will also love it. Especially since the kid is the one who is going to have to live with it for the rest of his/her life.
|
July 15th, 2010, 06:07 AM
|
 |
Platinum Supermommy
|
|
Join Date: Jun 2007
Location: Louisiana
Posts: 8,090
|
|
|
We are using Louise as the middle name after my grandmother.. Its not a name I would normally use but we like the idea of having a family name as the middle name and plan to do that with all of our children!!
__________________
Aimee wife to Jeremiah mommy to Adeline Louise
|
July 15th, 2010, 08:39 AM
|
 |
<-- Just do it.
|
|
Join Date: Nov 2005
Location: The Tar Heel State
Posts: 6,308
|
|
Sigh, yes. If this baby is a boy he'll have a name I'm not particularly wild about just for tradition's sake. I've tried to get my husband and MIL to compromise a bit but you just don't mess with Southerners and their traditions!
|
July 15th, 2010, 09:24 AM
|
 |
Co-host of the May 09PR
|
|
Join Date: Jul 2007
Location: Maryland
Posts: 8,720
|
|
|
Edward (DH's name) is a HUGE family name. I like honoring family, after all Henry's first name is after my grandmother. But I didn't want our son to have the same name as his father. So that's why his middle name is Edison. It honored the Edward name but it is different enough. And now, most people think it's kinda funny (son of Ed).
__________________
|
| Topic Tools |
Search this Topic |
|
|
|
| Display Modes |
Linear Mode
|
Posting Rules
|
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts
HTML code is Off
|
|
|
All times are GMT -7. The time now is 06:19 AM.
|