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July 15th, 2010, 01:24 PM
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Mama To 3 Amazing Boys
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Join Date: Apr 2006
Location: Just the other side of sane!
Posts: 7,140
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I just wanted to let everyone know that I'm taking a break from JM. And I also deactivated my Facebook. I have a lot of things I need to get done around my house and a lot of "nesting" to do before Mason gets here. Plus, some of you know Chris and I have been having a lot of issues in our marriage. To the point where we both question if maybe divorce might be our best answer.  I just don't feel there is much hope for us anymore and I almost feel like the fighting to keep afloat is all in vain. So at this point in time, I'm not exactly sure what is going to be the outcome of all of this. I still love him and I'm still in love with him, but I'm just not happy in my life right now and I don't really feel I will be any time soon. I feel like all I do is cry and feel sad and worthless and hopeless and desperate. So, I'm taking a break in hopes that maybe if I get myself a full attitude make over, maybe everything will be different and I'll be happy again.
I wish you all well in your lives and send you all lots of hugs!
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~Brandi~ Wife to Chris (9.17.04)- Mommy to Edward (7.15.05)-Preston (5.28.08)-Mason (11.4.10) Proud Christian, Jesus Loving, Breastfeeding, Co-sleeping, Babywearing, Cloth Diapering, Delayed/Selective Vaxing, Homeschooling Mama! I choose to Homeschool so I can give my children a Godly foundation, So they know His word and His truths! Thank you luv2bemommy for my awesome blinkies!!!
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July 15th, 2010, 01:36 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Oct 2008
Posts: 9,182
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 I am so sorry you are going through this right now. I completely understand needing a break. I hope you can figure out what you need to do to make yourself happy. We will always be here when you get back!
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[CENTER] Thanks to Becky (No.absolutes) for my beautiful siggy!
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July 15th, 2010, 02:03 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Sep 2007
Location: Montreal
Posts: 6,333
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I'm sorry things are so difficult right now. Sometimes a break is what we need. I hope you both will figure out a way to make things work so you're both happy. Come back anytime you feel ready, we'll still be here 
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PLEASE DO NOT MENTION PREGNANCY ON FACEBOOK!
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July 15th, 2010, 02:05 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: May 2005
Location: NJ
Posts: 10,430
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I'm sorry you're going through all this right now Brandi. I hope and pray that things improve for you soon! I think the break will be a good thing, at the very least it'll help you focus on family and such without the computer distractions. HUGS
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July 15th, 2010, 02:27 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jun 2007
Location: Louisiana
Posts: 8,090
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((HUGS)) Sorry things are so rough right now.. Please check in from time to time!!
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Aimee wife to Jeremiah mommy to Adeline Louise
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July 15th, 2010, 02:53 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Jul 2006
Location: New Zealand
Posts: 4,882
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I'm so sorry you are having a hard time  Please check in with us when you can, you know how wonderful and supportive the women here are. I'll be thinking of you.
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July 15th, 2010, 03:00 PM
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Ian, Morgan and Isabella!
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Join Date: Mar 2008
Location: Hillsboro, Oregon
Posts: 6,244
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soooo sorry your going through this!! I will miss you a lot! you dont even know!!! your my personal cheering squad!
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~Momma to 3 munchkins~
~Ian Michael, 6~
~Morgan Alexis, 5~
~Isabella Joy, 1~
~Owned by a 2009 Friesian Sport Horse Filly named Calypso~
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July 15th, 2010, 03:10 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Apr 2007
Location: So. California
Posts: 12,651
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oh no! I wish you wouldn't go!!!I hope everything turns out ok and maybe a lil break is all you guys need. Please keep us updated on how all the boys are and when your new one arrives!
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July 15th, 2010, 03:51 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Mar 2008
Posts: 6,553
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I'm sorry things aren't going very well for you right now. I hope you guys are able to sort it all out so that your whole family is happier.
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July 15th, 2010, 04:11 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Nov 2005
Location: Indianapolis, IN
Posts: 14,576
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Big hugs Brandi. I hope things improve and you can make it work. If you both love eachother then there is still hope, right? I think I remember you saying in the past things get rough while your pregnant each time in your marriage? Do you think that is what is happening again. I might be way off but I recall you saying something about this before.
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July 15th, 2010, 08:49 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jan 2008
Location: Depends on the day....Earth :D
Posts: 28,954
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You will be missed!
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July 16th, 2010, 03:13 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Oct 2007
Posts: 8,102
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i hope you are feeling better and back here in no time! *hugs*
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July 16th, 2010, 06:58 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Mar 2008
Location: ID
Posts: 12,014
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I'm so sorry things are rough for you right now I hope everything works out and you come back around sometime in the future.
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Krista
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July 16th, 2010, 07:01 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Apr 2008
Location: St. Louis, MO
Posts: 14,102
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I hope things get better for you soon!
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Cycle #1-9 - All Natural....5BFN's, 4BFP's (all ended in miscarriage) Cycle #10-11 - Met with first RE, diagnosed with heterzygeous MTHFR mutation & slightly low SA on all counts. -BFN, Cycle #12 - First IUI+Trigger - BFN, Cycle #13 - BFN Cycle #14-15 - Met with new RE, diagnosed with a blocked right tube that previous RE completely overlooked or didnt care to mention. Soy (120mg) - BFN Cycle #16 - Clomid (100mg) - BFN, Cycle #17 - Clomid (100mg)+Trigger+IUI - BFN Cycle #18 - Acupuncture+Clomid (100mg) - BFN Cycle #19-27 - 2 Soy (160mg) cycles, the rest all natural also 30lbs lost!! - BFN's Cycle #28 - New RE is GREAT! Put on bcp 7/6/11, Lap surgery 8/1/11- Tubal cyst (5cm) found and removed, Uterine Septum removed, and Stage II-III endo removed. Cycle #29 - All Natural - BFN, Cycle #30 - All Natural - BFN, Cycle#31 - All Natural - BFN, DONE TTC FOR NOW
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July 16th, 2010, 07:51 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Oct 2007
Location: San Diego, CA
Posts: 6,194
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I hope you get everything figured out soon!
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July 16th, 2010, 11:23 AM
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Super Moderator
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Join Date: Sep 2005
Location: Georgia
Posts: 33,079
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July 16th, 2010, 06:11 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Apr 2007
Location: Barbados
Posts: 18,988
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I'm really sorry. I hope everything will settle down and work out for you all and the children. Take care of yourself and your beautiful boys.
If you don't get back before Mason's birth, I wish you a smooth and uneventful delivery.
(((HUGS)))
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Thank you Helen for my beautiful siggy!
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