[**Jenn**]

I figure I can either let my anger consume me or I can learn to let things go. I will be a happier person if I can learn to be angry and then let it pass and not hold onto things. Of course it makes it harder when the other person NEVER apologizes and when it effects my children. But, I need to be the bigger person and set a positive example for my kids.

[*kyle*]

Good for you, for trying to be the bigger, better person. Ironically, it takes so much strength to let go! However, anger is only felt by you, not by the person you're angry at. It only destroys the person who holds it. Easier said than done, but not impossible to do, if you can find the balance and inner peace to let go. I hope this is the solution, or at least the way to smooth things over that you've been waiting for.

[soImarriedAnerd]

[**Jenn**]

Thank you! I know it'll be a lot of hard work on my part but I need to be able to do this to be a happier person. It's not fair to my kids to have a Mom who is always angry. And I certainly don't want them to grow up that way.

[LisanAndy]

Awesome Jenn

[Mars]

I'm offering you much support. It is hard but keep working at it.

[~*sierra*~]

*hugs*

[alicenwonderland]

*Hugs* I know its' been really hard for you. I'm glad you have a positive outlook. Might as well try to coexhist as best you can.

[♥Ashley♥]

Good for you! I have no idea what the details of the situation are, but I myself went through a change like that. I was very depressed and pretty much just mad at the world and mean to anyone/everyone including Jason for no reason at all (Im sure you have a reason, this is just my experience) I just decided one day, what in the world is the point of this? I am wasting my life! I need to enjoy every single second because my life could end at any moment and would I be happy with the way I spent my days? NO! Now I never let a day go by being mad about things that dont matter, or not being in a good mood. Ive never been happier EVER! Bless Jason for dealing with me, I dont know how he did it for the 2+ years before I changed! I literally feel like that was a different life, my life is SO different now!