Approaching Lucas's 4th birthday and his big birthday really makes me want to take a moment to tell everyone how thankful I am that we have the opportunity to give him a big birthday party and celebrate. In this past year my family knows a little girl who is just months younger than Lucas who was approaching her 1 yr mark of fighting cancer... days before her final scans to confirm she was in remission, a new spot showed up right on her forehead

so now she is starting her journey to fight all over again... but she is one tough little girl, I follow her journal several times a week, and pray for her and her family all the time. Also just a few months ago a family in our city suffered a terrible tragedy... their 2 yr old son woke up before everyone, pushed a chair to the back door and unlocked it, slipped under their gate where the dogs dug it up, and drown in their swimming pool
My heart aches for the families that have to go through things like this... My cousins and I are active in the Relay for Life walk every year for the American Cancer Society and I always make sure I take time to really just sit and enjoy everything my boys do... I just can't help but think about all the families who have to celebrate their children's birthdays wondering if they'll make it to the next one.
I kind of feel like it's not only my duty to my children to love them and protect them and celebrate and cherish every little thing about them, but I also feel like it's my duty to do this for the parents who have that opportunity taken away from them, if that makes any sense...
Its nice to just take a moment and give your little ones an extra hug and kiss and just think about how very fortunate we are to have these little amazing people...