[*vi]

It seems like everyone I know IRL is getting pregnant and I'm still not! GRRRR

I'm sorry, I'm happy for the women I know who got pregnant but I feel like why not me? When is it my turn??

One of the managers at my work just told us she's pregnant, as well as another girl I work with. and then I get home and DH tells me that one of our friends called earlier to tell him that his wife is pregnant again.

I'm just feeling really down. and I know it happens but I can't help but feel bummed out. especially because I'm still at the start of my cycle so I don't really have a chance yet.

Ok rant over. Thank you lol I feel a little bit better to be able to rant to someone about it as most people IRL don't know we're trying...

[soImarriedAnerd]

{hugs}

[Frozendesire]

*huge hugs*

I can't imagine being in your situation. I'm not to sure what to say to comfort you, but I do wish it wasn't this way. Big hugs from me.

[*vi]

Thank you both. I was feeling a little down already once I found out the manager at my work was pregnant but then when I found out the friend's wife was pregnant that was a little more personal. When she found out she was pregnant with her daughter that was a hard time too. She just seems to get pregnant whenever I'm having a hard time with this non-pregnant thing LOL oh well... one day.

[Adriana's Mommy]

Your turn will come, at the right moment..

[LisanAndy]

HUGE hugs!!

[*JenJen*]

*hugs* I swear I was in that same place about 8 months ago. Now everyone is getting ready to pop and have their babies and its hard again. Our times will come, I have to believe that.

[**Jenn**]

Huge HUGS

[Mars]

(((HUGS)))

I so wish for you that it will happen soon. I try to but I know that there's no way I could possibly really know whay you must be going through though my heart breaks for you. Hang in there.

[~*sierra*~]

oh vi i just wanna give u a big hug.

i totally know how you feel because i felt that wayfor so long. i can remember the worst day i had......i was having a miscarriage & i stopped into my dh's office when he told me that a girl there was pregnant. i talked to my friend (receptionist) about it just after i found out and found out it wasn't planned and she was not the most thrilled. lovely. then i go to say hi to my other friend and another guy stops me in my tracks to show me some pics from his kids birthday party (which there are like 5 pregnant chicks in the pics) and so iwas feeling bitter and i said 'oh look at her, shes really pregnant, good for her' and then he turns to me and says 'oh yeah, my wife is pregnant again! sorta happened sooner than we wanted but oh well!'. so i'm standing there miscarrying, feeling like **** listening to this moron. ugh i definitely cried after that. ttc sucks big time sometimes.

[Mjp121212]

I understand too. Big hugs!

[Trannyfromtheuk]

Totally understand, Ive just gone through a patch where loads of people i know IRL have had babies/announced pregnancies and i've struggled through it. We will have babies one day x

[~* Helen *~]

hun xx

[~Caroline~]

((hugs))

I've been there before so I know how you feel. I hope your turn will come soon.

[*vi]

Originally Posted by *JenJen*

Our times will come, I have to believe that.

That's what I keep telling myself I have to have some hope to hold onto so I just keep thinking that ONE day it will finally happen. I hope it happens soon for you too!

Originally Posted by ~*sierra*~

oh vi i just wanna give u a big hug.

i totally know how you feel because i felt that wayfor so long. i can remember the worst day i had......i was having a miscarriage & i stopped into my dh's office when he told me that a girl there was pregnant. i talked to my friend (receptionist) about it just after i found out and found out it wasn't planned and she was not the most thrilled. lovely. then i go to say hi to my other friend and another guy stops me in my tracks to show me some pics from his kids birthday party (which there are like 5 pregnant chicks in the pics) and so iwas feeling bitter and i said 'oh look at her, shes really pregnant, good for her' and then he turns to me and says 'oh yeah, my wife is pregnant again! sorta happened sooner than we wanted but oh well!'. so i'm standing there miscarrying, feeling like **** listening to this moron. ugh i definitely cried after that. ttc sucks big time sometimes.

I remember when you told us about that. My heart hurt for you. I know how much it can hurt to feel like that and I'm sorry you had to go through that. but now you've got your sticky little girl and I'm so so SO happy for you

Originally Posted by Trannyfromtheuk

We will have babies one day x

I hope it's soon for us all!

I'm so thankful to know so many kind caring ladies who know that ttc isn't always so easy. I'm glad that I can complain (which I will try to keep to a minimum) and I won't hear back "don't stress about it and it will happen". yes like stress is my problem...

Thank you all! xoxoxoxoxo

[freesiangel]

[JediRach]

:[ I'm sorry hon.

[faith*hope*love]

Hugs Vi! I totally agree, this week I found out about 6 people that are pregnant. One still in high school. It's like a punch in the face everytime. Although my hurt isn't due to infertility, just an unwilling DH I know the pain that you are going through.

[♥Ashley♥]

I feel your pain, believe me...

[ShannonMVT]

*hugs* It is really hard. I hope your turn comes soon...I wish it was now!

When we were having such a hard time TTC, I swear I noticed every pregnant belly or person with a baby. I can still remember one specific time Dh and I went out to eat and there was this new dad who kept leaning over and kissing his newborn baby. It just ripped my heart to shreds.

And of course dealing with people you actually know is really tough too.

Big big HUGS!