So I had an appointment with my primary care manager today, that I scheduled several weeks ago before I found out I was pregnant. Of course I wasn't going to refill my Adderall, but I figured I might as well go to the appt anyways, that way I can get an "official" pee stick and blood work right?
Apparently not, I guess I'm just an idiot.
When the nurse takes me in for triage she asks me when my last period was. I tell her, and I tell her that I found out I was pregnant and that I need to do the official bloodwork and all that. She just looked at my like I had two heads, and kept asking me WHO did my pregnancy test, WHERE is it on record that I'm pregnant and WHY didn't I go to the OB?
Uh, I did a test at home, nowhere, and I didn't go to an OB because you can't just DO that at a military hospital, you have to get a referral. Not to mention I don't want to see an OB for my pregnancy
So she made me feel like a complete idiot and I just wanted to bolt, I seriously thought about leaving and never going back lol! But I went in to see the doctor anyways. Thankfully she was nicer.
She was mostly concerned that I thought I would just get a referral to the birth center and get it all paid for. I already know that's not happening, it's fine! So I told her how important it was to me, that I am already planning on paying for it. She was fine with that.
Then she wanted me to do this-
1. Go to the self help desk, have a urine pregnancy test
2. Wait for an appointment to see the OB nurse so I could get referred to the OB floor.
3. WAIT again to see an OB, then have the OB put in a consult for the birth center
4. The consult will obviously be denied, then I can appeal it.
I was like seriously? Why would I do that, I don't need to do any of that! So I told her I would just go switch to Tricare Standard and go to the birth center for all my care. So she ended up doing a urine HCG and a quantative HCG anyways, which is really all I needed
Sorry, just had to vent somewhere! I'm so sick of military health ins!