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I've been MIA for such a long time!!! I've been so busy lately with stuff going on at home!
DH and I hit a rough patch a few weeks ago, I'm not sure if I posted about it. It got pretty bad and I accused him of cheating, and he said he wanted out of our marriage.
Thank God we sat down and spoke about everything and now we are doing good!
DSS hasn't been down for a few weeks now, so he doesn't know about any of our drama, and that's the most important thing. We get him this weekend though!!! I'm excited to see him!!!
It's also coming up on the 1 year mark since our miscarriage. I've been feeling down lately, and even thought about leaving JM for a little bit. But once I started posting on the TTCAL board, I started to feel better and can't leave! I'm so grateful to have this site as a support system!!!
Glad to have you back!!! It's good to hear all has worked out with you and your hubby! Communication is the key and it sounds like you guys have figured that out!
I completely understand about your feeling down at that one year mark. I've had 4 miscarriages and 1 stillbirth and I know that even years later, it still bothers me from time to time. It's good that you stuck with JM and all of it's support. I wish I had had something like this when I was going through all that. (8 pregnancies total and NO ONE understood why I still mourned the lost ones after I had my first healthy child!) Unless you have been through something like that you can't truly understand how much it hurts when those anniversaries roll around. It gets better, but it's always there. The women on this board are such a tremendous source of support and caring...and knowing that there is someone here who has been through what you are coping with is a great comfort.
Have a wonderful time this weekend with your dss! Let us know how everything goes!!!
Sorry to hear that you've had a lot to deal w/ in everything. Glad you are working things out. Can I be nosy and ask "why" you'd wonder if he was cheating or not? Just curious from personal experience that's all...
Hope you're doing better, nice hearing from you
Thanks ladies! It's always great to know that there ARE people who understand what is going on!
Chantelle -- The reason I thought he was cheating was because he wasn't communicating at all. He would usually call or text me during the day at work, nothing big, just little things...and then they just stopped. I'd call him and he'd freak out with me on the phone and hang up. He'd come home and only want to go to bed, he wouldn't stay up and tell me how his day was or just talk. Then at his night job, he'd usually contact me a lot when he was bored and then nothing. So I assumed he was cheating. But we spoke about everything, and now everything is great. He told me that he was stressed, scared about when we begin trying, money, everything.