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March 7th, 2006, 07:54 AM
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Someone who does not want to be found? My dh's and his ex have a son....she is what I call a runner....My dh was deployed for a year and she was in one state the whole time...when it was time for him to come home she disappears....I know my dh wants to see him but he knows when she is found she will move again. He pays cs through the courthouse and we have called and they have the same address we have so she said it must be getting forwarded....How do you find someone without having to spend thousands of dollars finding them....we live far away from our home state and we are expecting another baby...we just want to see him and let him see his siblings...I don't push him in doing anything cause when I ask he changes the subject and says she is not going to let me see him and leaves the room....
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March 10th, 2006, 11:40 PM
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Is there a custody order? If he has to pay child support certainly he's entitled to see his child. When you move you are supposed to notify the courts of your new address. If she is getting the money, they should have her new address. If nothing else, file a petition with the court that she is in contempt of court if he does have visitiation and not getting it. Good luck.
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March 22nd, 2006, 02:37 PM
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He has a co but she is gone....we pay cs through the state and they don't have her address so they are just putting the cs into an account. And lawyers tell us we have to pay to locate her cause nobody knows where she is. And we live like 15 hours away from where the co was ordered....its a mess and I feel sorry for my dh's son and my dh.
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March 23rd, 2006, 12:37 AM
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I don't have any advice for you but wishing the best of luck to you! Hope you find him!
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