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April 15th, 2010, 07:40 PM
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Just to say hi. I talked to my girls on Monday they called my 12 yo had a piano recital at school and she invited us to go. It was Tuesday. It was lovely. Only saw the 1daughter. been trying to stay busy. Things are hard I miss them but I'm not going to tell them. Trying to focuse on my other 2 kids. Thanks for everthing ladies. hope everything is ok on your front.
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April 16th, 2010, 12:47 AM
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That's great that they invited you to the recital! I hope it's a start of a better relationship!
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April 16th, 2010, 07:12 AM
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Margaret, that's wonderful that they invited you and you had a good time! The only thing I would caution you is don't let this situation harden your heart. Tell them you miss them...they need to know you still love them. You're letting your hurt feeings keep you from having a relationship with them that's more than that of maybe a distant cousin or family friend. They WILL grow up and they WILL stop being this way...and someday they're going to want to re-establish your relationship with them. It will be so much easier to do if they KNOW you're open to that because they KNOW you still love them! Don't focus so much on the here and now but look down the road to when they get married and have babies of their own. You are going to want to bew a part of that. Don't build walls so high now that you can't scale them later.
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