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September 13th, 2010, 11:33 AM
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Dh's oldest (she'll be 16 in January) hasn't answered his phone calls in over a month. She's angry once again. Now it's because she isn't included in his food blog. Well how can he include her if she refuses to be part of his life?????

Like she was mad that he didn't have pictures of her on his facebook either. Well we don't get pictures of her? We don't see her - How are we supposed to have anything to post?

It makes me so angry. And it breaks Dh's heart. Honestly, she's his favorite. They were really close before the divorce and our marriage. It's so sad that she is so mixed up.
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September 13th, 2010, 11:59 AM
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I'm sorry their relationship is so bad. I wish there was some advise I could give you to make it better, but honestly it sounds like her mom has poisoned her against you and him. How sad.

And you're right, how can she be included in those things if she refuses to take part in his life.
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September 13th, 2010, 04:17 PM
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my sd got mad once because my profile pic on fb was just me, dh and my son... it was actually her mom that LURKED my page (we arent fb friends) and told my sd about the picture... that stuff is so petty.

I'm sorry mama.
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September 13th, 2010, 05:53 PM
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Sorry to hear that things went so sour. But you're right, how can see be included in anything if she excludes herself all the time? I would have to agree with Rachel. Sounds like her mom is feeding things to her.
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September 14th, 2010, 10:20 AM
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I am sorry you are going thru this. But you can't include her in anything if she doesn't want to me included.
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September 14th, 2010, 12:15 PM
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my sd got mad once because my profile pic on fb was just me, dh and my son... it was actually her mom that LURKED my page (we arent fb friends) and told my sd about the picture... that stuff is so petty.

I'm sorry mama.
I blocked Dh's ex for this very reason. I don't want her seeing my stuff!

And mom is feeding her but let's just say "the apple doesn't fall far from the tree" Some of this this girl comes up with on her own.

His youngest who is 11 gets the same info. She however has demanded that her mother let her be part of our family.

It so sad because DH is an awesome father and he tries so hard with her.
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September 14th, 2010, 07:33 PM
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^^ ya the ex and I werent friends on there but she looked me up and could see my profile pic... now I have it set so no on that I am not friends with can see my profile pic... its NONE of her business what pic I have...
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September 14th, 2010, 07:52 PM
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I used to be FB friends with Neely's ex, but she deleted me when I called her out on some lies she told. She told the boys she was going to a medical study for the weekend and what she really did was go to bike week in Gettysburg and got smashed all weekend. When she got back she posted about her weekend on Facebook, which her kids could see, btw. When I saw it, I commented "the boys were wondering how that seizure study went". She called me immediately and started screaming at me and then deleted the comment and me as her friend.

Made me cry. Or Not.
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September 15th, 2010, 12:24 PM
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^^ ya the ex and I werent friends on there but she looked me up and could see my profile pic... now I have it set so no on that I am not friends with can see my profile pic... its NONE of her business what pic I have...
I actually blocked dh's ex. She can't even find me through a search. Dh did that as well because they have some mutual friends.
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