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May 31st, 2006, 09:50 AM
Mom2DyJessAva's Avatar Platinum Supermommy
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think its hard to be in a relationship when their are already kids involved?



i dont think its that bad...i thought my boyfriend daughter was the cutest and she was always nice...things were just hard when i found out he would spend the night over there and i wouldnt no what was going on (i some what didnt trust him being around his ex) but after that was settled things got better up untill his crazy ex brought him to court for something he didnt do...over all i thought it was worth it at the time...of course our relationship changed so its different now
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June 1st, 2006, 08:35 AM
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I didn't think it was bad. my boys were 6 months and 3 when i started dating my dh. at first he only stayed at the house when the boys were visting their dad. but once they all really got to know eachother he would stay with them being at home. We've been married for 2 years and the boys are 8 and 5 and they get along wonderful.
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June 1st, 2006, 10:43 AM
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It was easy in the beginning. Then it got harder. The more they liked me the more the BM would talk bad about me. When DS was born it got really hard. Not only was there the jealousy issue but also my SS started getting out of control. It is still very easy with my SD but between my SS and his BM there are day's I just want to run.
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June 1st, 2006, 06:46 PM
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I think it completely depends on the relationship with the exes. It's not hard for me to love his kids and mine were teens when we got together, and the visitation schedule for them was already set. It has been much harder to develope a relationship with his boys because of their mom always saying horrible things about him and me.
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