I am fuming right now,
My ex husband and I have been seperated for 4yrs now, he lives in NY and i live in canada with our daughter., he agreed to it.
He cheated on me since 2weeks after we were married, including the day our daughter was born and the day our son was stilborn. I stayed with him for 4yrs thinking he would change. I came up to canada to give him a chance to get my papers, we had been saving up forever, and had $600 saved up only $400 to go.
Well he came up for his daughters birthday and told me he spent all the money on his "girl" friends birthday present!! didnt bring anything up for his daughter. So i told him I had enough, and i think we should seperated until he figures out what he wants.
He agreed.
The next month he was in a relationship.(WTH?) so i basically wrote him off, he would call whenever and has yet to send money for child support.
Last year he finally sent me divorce papers, because my fiance and I(together for 3yrs) want to get married. I signed them in nov. and sent them in dec.
Well fast forward til now, he has been talking about our daughter going down there for a month in the summer(she hasnt been there in 4yrs, he hasnt seen her in 2) and all this crap, She doesnt want to, and that has nothing to do with me, i talk to her about her dad, not in a bad way. She just doesnt want to go because she doesnt know him.
Well his cousins wife facebooked me the other day, they used to be really close, but she wanted to warn me that he has been telling everyone i took off on him with his daughter, and that I wont sign the papers, and that he is going for custody without telling me.
Can he do that?
I am filing today at the court house here for sole custoday, and the courts can serve him.
In the divorce papers it says that he will give me sole custody as long as he gets visitation up here, whenever he wants. Not a problem there. But to do this??? ***?
10/29/11
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