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March 11th, 2011, 08:44 PM
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would you go back and change anything about your divorce or the end of your relationship? How about with your current spouse/relationship?
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March 12th, 2011, 07:20 AM
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With my ex I wouldn't change a thing. I was not happy when I was with him.

With P I may have waited until K was 18 to move in. Is that pathetic to think like that??
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March 12th, 2011, 10:44 AM
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hmmm the only thing I can think of is that I would have taken dh's dds to family therapy & had us all learn how to deal with instant family.
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March 12th, 2011, 02:16 PM
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Not a thing!
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March 12th, 2011, 09:32 PM
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I wouldn't have married my ex. I would still have my son just not the ex.
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March 13th, 2011, 12:42 PM
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I think the only thing I would have changed is I think we would have fought harder to get custody of the boys sooner. I knew eventually they would end up with us and it would be her own choosing when it happened. I just think they would have been better off had we had them a lot sooner.
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March 21st, 2011, 02:27 PM
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would you go back and change anything about your divorce or the end of your relationship? How about with your current spouse/relationship?
I would have done a LOT different with my daughters father.

First, not put him on the birth certificate. Not give my daughter his last name (we changed this). Get custody established. Break up with him and kick him out of my house LONG before Lily was even born!

With my current SO... wouldn't have changed a thing. He came in my life at the perfect time and we have a great family
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