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April 14th, 2011, 01:58 PM
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Is that in your custody agreement?

I think (I have to pull it out to be certain), that she's supposed to have them on Mother's Day. We have no plans really, but we're going to wait to see if she asks for it, though.

Oh and her phone is turned off again. Both her cell and the alternate number we had for her.
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April 14th, 2011, 02:12 PM
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We switch up our time with her on mothers day. So I will pick her up at noon.
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April 14th, 2011, 03:28 PM
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It's in the paperwork that she gets them every Mother's day, but because of the distance, it's not gonna happen. I doubt she'd pick them up that day if we lived closer.
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April 14th, 2011, 04:17 PM
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Nothing in writing that I can recall about that. Usually she's home with her mom that day. I would be highly pissed off if either of us had to spend that day on the road bringing her home. We don't live close and it's not fair to everyone else that he has to drive her home on such a day. That means he would miss out on time with me and his own mother. Plus some times his bday falls on mothers day and I get greedy with him on that day.
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April 14th, 2011, 04:31 PM
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That's why I'm hoping she doesn't ask, Liz. Last Mother's Day, I spent my day on the road waiting for her to spend an hour with them at the park. We ended up having McDonalds for lunch and it just was not fun for me. I didn't see my mom or my older kids. I'm not doing that again this year.
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April 14th, 2011, 05:33 PM
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Yeah I don't blame you. I remember lil guys first Easter. He spent it driving her home. I was fuming.
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April 14th, 2011, 05:47 PM
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technically its her weekend but she doesn't want them that weekend so we have them all weekend! I get one on one time for a while on that friday (that's also the day we find out what we are having) and then we have them all weekend.
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April 14th, 2011, 06:30 PM
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April 14th, 2011, 07:44 PM
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With my ex we have it in our papers that I get mother's day and he gets father's day regardless of who's weekend it is. DH has sole custody and she has no official visitation. We let her get her whenever she wants and even encouraged the every other weekend thing when she suggested it. She didn't do it though. Sorry, thought I got all my frustration out in my other post.
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April 15th, 2011, 06:11 AM
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Before they moved out of state it was just an agreement between her and hubby that we would switch weekends for Mother's/Father's Days. Sometimes we just switched weekends and would do 2 in a row w/ and w/o both in May and June. Other times we had him once in May and 3 times in June. May of '09, I believe it was, we shared Mother's Day because she had something going on that weekend (work i think) so we had him per normal visitation but took him home early so she could have part of the day with him too.

Now that they've moved, it depends if he gets out of school for the year in time to get here before Father's Day. (his school gets out mid-June) Last year he was here in time for Father's Day but I haven't checked for this year.
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