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May 2nd, 2011, 07:45 PM
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What's the most difficult thing you're dealing with right now in your blended family?
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May 3rd, 2011, 10:30 AM
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I'm here.

We're in between difficult things - literally. We just went through dh's grandmother's death & funeral and how to deal with that. And we're coming up on the summer months. Hoping to get dh's youngest for some time this summer. We're planning on taking a family trip in July & would love her to come as well. But I have to light a fire under dh's butt to plan something. And of course, he will ask instead of stating. He acts like he hasn't got any rights. But that will never change. I just need to know because we are driving and renting a vehicle. If dsd comes, we'll get a mini van which is more expensive. If not we'll get something smaller.
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May 3rd, 2011, 11:10 AM
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Mother's Day. Ugh.
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May 3rd, 2011, 01:45 PM
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May 3rd, 2011, 02:04 PM
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We are dealing with K's mom trying to be the best friend instead of a parent. We tell her she can't do something and she calls mom and mom lets her do whatever.
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May 5th, 2011, 01:32 PM
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I'm here I just don't post that often. Lately I have been given the responsibility of doing the drop offs and pick ups for my stepson. So I get the joy of driving 2 hours each way into the middle of no where. Oh and what fun that is at almost 6 months pregnant, since there's no where to pee which I need to like every 30 minutes and sitting in the same position for too long makes my butt and legs go numb. And to make it even better I get to deal with my stepsons idiot mother who likes to try and make it seem like I'm not taking care of her kid because last time I dropped him off he had a scratch on his face, which he did to himself in the car because I was being a horrible stepmom and wouldn't allow him to pull my 5 year old's hair so he threw a massive tantrum. But other than that nothing else new.
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May 8th, 2011, 05:18 PM
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Who's here? i'm here, just stoped posting for a million reasons

What's the most difficult thing you're dealing with right now in your blended family? mother's day, but my fam is support off helping .... him & his kid ... god everything, sometimes he's shows disrespect so she feels like she don't have to respect ,,, he had to go babysit the mother today so his daughter could see the mother ... she has been a pill dropper since long time ,, he saw this ,, wht did he want to have a kid with this woman i sometimes ask myself, but yet i say the same thing about me, now her older childen are doing it, i'm just so glad syd is here with us, she don't see that. & we fight what maybe 1 time a yr

second...UGGGG , and i know where she gets it from but if i hear Trisha's name ONE MORE TIME i'm gonna LOOSE IT ,,, UGG same with DADDY , DADDY can you help me with this DADDY tie my shoes DADDY stop talking to trisha DADDY , play with me... DADDY oh look what TRISHA is doing TRISHA is playing with your hat, OH are you chasing me TRISHA , oh do you want this TRISHA oh my good it eats me up and i tell her lisstin people sometimes whow who your talking to and after saying her name 50 times i think she knows her name by now.. ..and she does it more JUST to piss me off.....

can you tell i've been away awhile lmao.... ugg and JUST EAT, she was SOOO hungrey today she kept asking for a pickle so he let her have 2 then to wait for dinner cause it was almost done. he put a hotdog on her plate with 3 salt pootatos,,, she ate 1 potato & 1/2 the hot dog, then he let her MOW on sliced tomato's & 2 brownies after she said she was so full ...yes the tomato's are good, but she is not filling up with dinner , she gains 1 pound a yr,, she's almost 7 and still in 2-3T summer clothes

this will not happen with trisha dissert right after dinner at a res. one thing ponderosa, but at home DINNER is more important. if you ready for dessert RIGHT after dinner and you did not finish your plate of dinner ...no no no

ok sorry venting ,,,just makes ne crazy```
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May 9th, 2011, 07:35 AM
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I'm here and dealing with the same ol crap just different day.
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May 9th, 2011, 04:36 PM
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hugs ,, stupid. little stuff drives me crazy!!! i know she's six, but if a 1 1/2 is hitting you MOVE, what really more is when cori or daddy or his bro, or grandma, or grandpa is playing with trisha, ( tho she alreay is doing something with someone else ) she stops and buts in & takes control,,,, but then they will staqrt a game with syd & if trisha buts in syd crys & gets MORE atten..\\\\

she is also 6 almost 7 & is STILL getting her faather to tie her shoe's or put on her jacket or zipper her jacket up it buggs me, so i have her start getting ready for the school bus 7 minutes before it come,,,,, he b/c he plays and jokes around with her in the am wonders why she has no time in the am

she has 20 min in am with me to have fun color etc

with him no time and he *****es at her,,,well listen to me and take pointers

you guys unleased a lion i'm sorry, but thank you need to get this out
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May 13th, 2011, 11:36 AM
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May 13th, 2011, 02:23 PM
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((Stacey)))

I can't imagine having to deal with that. What a horrible human being she is. You child is having surgery?????? I just don't get it.

BTW I'd be crying too. She's so lucky to have you.
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May 14th, 2011, 05:03 AM
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May 14th, 2011, 03:01 PM
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Well I think she's a horrible mother to say the least. I can't imagine not caring if 1 of my children had surgery. Heck I can't every imagine not having full custody of my kids.

BTW - definitely not the woman.
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May 14th, 2011, 04:40 PM
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i'm sorry stacy i will def pay more atten,,,,, i just get so frustrated,, even today he had 20 minutes with Trisha ALLL DAY & syd did the same thin, he was playing with her for 1 sec & she butted in & takes over now she has the next 2 hrs along with the last 12 hrs with him.... & as of my daughter and i we have YET to get a hello....

again i'm sorry
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May 15th, 2011, 06:22 AM
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May 15th, 2011, 04:39 PM
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Turtlesong, don't apologize. Sometimes you have to get it out. Being a stepmom isn't easy.

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May 16th, 2011, 12:37 PM
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our oldest, he's 10, he's an extremely picky eater...will only eat cheese pizza, cheesecrisp, bagels, fruitloops...very bad diet...thanks to his great grandma on his mother's side... he's seeing a counselor just to talk about what's bothering him, different things..something his mother wanted to put him in but trying to get her on the same page as us with his eating is difficult. he's agreed to try different things so we wll see how it goes. did not go very well yesterday. she says she agrees with us and we can all work together but i don't know as if i believe her
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May 21st, 2011, 07:23 AM
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I'm here, back after being MIA for awhile.

Right now the most difficult thing we're dealing with is the whole school situation. My DSS just finished preschool (which I enrolled him in) and is getting ready to start kindergarten in the fall. My BF and I scheduled his kindergarten screening, took him there, and met with the teacher, principal, and school nurse afterwards to discuss his results. We have filed all the paperwork, got everything ready to go, and now all of a sudden BM decides that she wants to show interest. We have DSS during the week and every other weekend so it should be obvious where he goes to school, especially considering she hasn't even done one thing to prepare him for his first year. The first I even hear about it, is in the car on the way to preschool, DSS says that he changed his mind and he wants to go to school with his brother (BM's older son not with my BF) and that his mom said she would take him. I was immediately furious, not at my DSS, but at his mom for putting these ideas in his head because, even though he has no idea of this, you can't just pick and choose your school on a whim like that. As far as we know, she hasn't enrolled him or registered him anywhere, but it scares both of us that she might try to take full custody now that he'll be in school most of the day and therefore less work.
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