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June 10th, 2011, 05:32 PM
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i'm going crazy..tho i don't think i am


she will be the death of our marrage and she's happy about it & he will go alonge with it...and he will live a long lonly life with out me.....

i truly had a wake up call b/c i thought it was just us ,,, but our family cames in ..same family , not blended .. and she even told the oldest to let the youger one play with daddy

so i went off... i cryed and broke down & told him we need to start workin on our marage ..he did good for 2 days then syd popped her head an ofcorse he don't see it .so i brought up a 12 diff occactions..ofcorse hhe dont remember

so i told him ok you spend 10 minutes with syd talking about her home work thats 10 minutes with Thrisha


why is this so hard ....he knows spending time with ( his kid ) was important

why cant he do it with ours ???? syd get 4-7 hrs with him

she don't want anything to do with Trisha ..till someone pays her atten ,,that what started the fight togight he asked Trisha for a hug she automactly OH trisha where is my hug shes been here 3 hrs didn't want anything to do wirth her & YES i finnally send this all to my husband well see

trisha get 5 IF his kid isnt here..& he usually uses that time to go out with his friends & of couse he don't wanna here that
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June 11th, 2011, 05:23 PM
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I'm really sorry, but I cannot follow your post.

Are you trying to say your husband spends more time with his child than he does with the child you share?
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June 11th, 2011, 05:56 PM
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yes

,,tho tech , i am treated the same way.

i told him last night i feel like cinderella or even the adult verson ever after tho he didn't die....


i am the evil step mom & Cori & trisa are the evil step sisters ...tho i don't think she's gonna marry a prince LOL ..

they are up there right now so cuddle on the couch talking nicely

all i get is sworn at ,,, Trisha is going to end up resenting this

i was just hoping that one of my kids would have a father ,, yes she does when sydney not around \\

she does this with everone . she'll be playin and as soon as somebody shows Trisha 1 bit of attention she stops it & takes over .

she even did it with Glenn . they both havent seen him for 2 days . As soon as he asked for a hug she was right there ..ohh where is my hug.. she'd been here for 4 hrs & wanted NOTHING to do with her

non blended family came up & she INSITED just like me to allow the younger child to spen time with the father for a minute or to

the younger children NEED time seperate time just like the older ones do ..to me it's MORE important being he spent 8am-2pm then 7-9 pm with the oldest and spent 5 minutes with Trisha
she is already showing sighns of resentment... not just on syd but on Cori
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June 11th, 2011, 08:51 PM
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I'm not sure how old your step daughter is, but it sounds like she's looking for attention because she's not getting enough. Does she live with you full time? How is her relationship with her mom?
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