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Just wondering if any drama has started since you had the baby?
When I had Olivia (which was our first together) everything was fine but Xwife made a big deal b/c we had to cancel a couple of visits b/c Olivia had to have some surgeries and such. Then when we had Sophia I was on bedrest for 6 wks and DH couldnt go get stepdaughter b/c they lived 3.5 hrs away and my ob didnt want him that far away. We asked XW to meet us halfway but she always refused. So we missed a lot of visits. When Sophia finally arrived she was then put in the nicu so more visits missed.
Here is the kicker. Aidan is due in 30 days and we have depositions that keep getting postponed and rescheduled. I told DH that I bet they are set for when Im scheduled to have him or when Im in the hospital. That is always the way it seems to work.
The day Dh and I got married he left an hour afterwards to drive 3.5 hours one way to get his stepdaughter, and then didnt get home till 10pm at nite. So we didnt even get to have one day! Her mom wouldnt let us pick her up the night before so she could come to the wedding..
Hey!..things have been okay so far.. I say so far because i no its only the beginning untill something starts..Once word gets out more and more about our son im expecting a ton..my main concern is two things.. His daughter getting hurt and his parents coming here...i dont want his daughter to get hurt because her dad has another child..shes use to just having him to herself since its was his only child (her mom has 3 others) and i dont want her to resent her brother or be jealous...with the grandparents they seem a little over board on things..they always take her for like a weekend or a week on vacations and i dont want them to think there going to do the same with my son..i no over time there going to find out so im waiting for the day i get a knock on the door from them what im gonna say i have no idea!!!...im sorry to hear that you had so much trouble with the ex.. I dont understand some people and why they do things like that..Things happen and relationships dont always work out but it shouldnt give someone the right to just be an a** about things and try and ruin other things..does that make sense? hehe...I really hope she doesnt wait untill you have your little one..i dont think thats fair at all!...