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July 30th, 2011, 11:38 AM
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July 30th, 2011, 01:06 PM
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First I'm sorry about the blow out and it is wrong that he's encouraging breaking the house rules. I just don't see how she egged it on. But again I'm sorry it happened and next time you should stand your ground and dole out whatever punishment you give everyone else for breaking the rules.
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I am sorry you had to deal with that.. those smirks can bring out the worst in you. I dont get the smirks, but I do get the "eyes"..

Rules have to be consistent, for ALL children, its not fair, if you have no eating on the couch, then its no eating, and if sd sees dh bending the rules it doesnt show much respect for you!

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July 30th, 2011, 03:57 PM
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I have no advice but . Your frustrations are totally valid. He does need to set the example and the conversation should have occurred elsewhere - united front and all, but I'm sure you already know that.

I hope it gets through to your dh.
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July 30th, 2011, 04:22 PM
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I am glad you got to talk to him about it.. I hope he understands, its so hard sometimes with blended families.
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July 31st, 2011, 05:39 AM
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Sounds like a good talk. I hope it only gets better from here for you guys. Good luck.
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July 31st, 2011, 02:26 PM
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Oh boy that's not good, I'm sorry it got so ugly. DH needs to learn some ground rules before it's too late with her.
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I'm sorry it's gotten to this. I am glad that bio mom is backing you up. Sorry that your dh isn't seeing the light. Sounds like his treatment of your sd may have been 1 of the contributing factors to the end of their marriage. You'd think he'd get a clue!

Have you tried coming at him from a different direction. Like saying "While I appreciate how much you love your dd and that should never change. You aren't doing her any favors by letting her break the rule. As parents, our job is to teach our children rules so that when they are adults the can fit into society. DSD is going to have a tough time when she is older & realizes that she can't always get her way"

If you haven't said this already might be worth a try.
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