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April 30th, 2012, 10:49 PM
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So bm stopped by yesterday to pick up O. She was wearing booty shorts, a tank top, and NO bra.

Yeah, it was basically like, "HELLO NIPPLES."

She then proceeded to congratulate us on our engagement by crouching down and clasping her hans together and saying "congratulations guysssssss." In a really fake high pitched voice. Whatever. It was nice of her to congratulate us.

But seriously, put a bra on. Eric said that was totally inappropriate. My sister in law said "nothing 2/3 of your household hasn't already seen." Ok that made me laugh a little lol.

Oh well. At least I don't have to do childish things to feel better about myself. If I go to her house braless in a tank top, mine are just as perky, 8 years younger, and REAL. Bam.
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May 1st, 2012, 11:25 AM
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Yeah I feel ya on that. Neely's ex used to walk around in a sports bra and think it was a fine way to answer the door.
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May 1st, 2012, 12:00 PM
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ughhh gross. Glad I don't have to deal with that. Dh's ex is the opposite. She's always dressed like she's going to walk the red carpet Inappropriate but at least covered 'cause she definitely doesn't have the body for uncovered.
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May 1st, 2012, 01:19 PM
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UGH that would drive me nuts. L's come in when I'm still in my jammies (aka no bra) but I usually have a sweater near by that I can shrug on!
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May 1st, 2012, 02:10 PM
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Thankfully I've never had to deal with that. BM has body issues since have DSD, and of course blames the girl for it and has let her know. She's always covered up. The flimsiest thing I've seen her in are shorts that weren't even that short.
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May 1st, 2012, 03:16 PM
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It moreso pissed me off because she KNOWS that Eric answers the door. It's NEVER just me when she comes to get O, so she KNEW he'd be there. Why she felt it was okay to flaunt her ladies in front of someone she KNEW just recently got engaged is ridiculous.

It makes her look immature, like she was trying to make him change his mind? idk. Shes gross.
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May 3rd, 2012, 07:11 PM
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Yuck
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May 6th, 2012, 09:04 AM
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Yeah, I agree, very classless. It's like, get over it, move on, nothing you do is gonna win him back even for just a sec. It's like some crazy thing in their mind wants to make sure theyre still being "checked out" by the ex.

My D.H thinks his ex is skanky, and now he's boob man(since he found me anyway lol) and she has none, so her figure just isnt appealing to him anymore. He said once, after we had been together for about 2 years, "Why would I chose to look at her or be with her, that's like choosing fish sticks over filet mignon?" It was so sweet but funny at the same time.

I remember once, I think it was last summer or the summer before. BM came to get DSS for her weekend, and she had just came from the pool. She literally came to the door in just her bikini. No shorts, no coverup that you can quick put on, just walkin around in her bikini. So I told my DSS he could go ahead with just shorts on and flip flops, looks like you may not need many clothes today. I felt like, hey if thats the case she can provide a shirt for him later. At the end of the weekend she asked when we were getting ready to meet her if she should send him shirtless and my DH told her no, just didnt think he needed clothes for friday considering how she was dressed.lol
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