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May 6th, 2012, 09:20 AM
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BM has a new bf, like the 20th one this year, anyway she's been dating him for like 2 months, if that which for her is a long time I guess lol. apparently he lives an hr or two away from where she does and she visits him on her days off, last week she took Ethan out of school for two days just so she could go visit, DH was PISSED because Ethan was almost held back in kindergarden last year because he missed so much.. so now she wants to move in with him, which means quitting her job, moving her 3 kids(only 2 are DHs) away from her family to live with a guy she has only known a few months?!!!
I'm hoping that since we're about to get the kids in a few weeks, she will move(if she does) while they are here and when(if) it blows up in her face the kids won't have to suffer.

DH and Her don't have a custody agreement, so whoever has them at the time has custody.
I really wish DH would see that the kids would be SOOOOO much better off with us, we have a stable home and could take much better care of them.

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May 6th, 2012, 10:08 AM
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Oh I hate that instability with parents. I hope she wises up and waits to make sure this guy is truly the one, or lets DH have his kids.
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May 6th, 2012, 10:52 AM
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ugh. Ya know, I hated being single and being alone... but really.. if I had kids, they would be coming first for a very long time.

I hope your DH comes to his senses and decides that the best place for the kids is with him. I'd be very wary of not having a custody agreement too
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May 6th, 2012, 03:23 PM
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I would seriously look into getting a custody agreement written up.
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May 6th, 2012, 04:21 PM
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story of my life with Neely's ex. She's on BF number 5 in the last few years and now wants the kids back. She's also on home #8 in the last 2 years.

Hopefully the move doesn't happen and/or it doesn't hurt the kids!
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May 6th, 2012, 05:30 PM
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I've told him this a million times, and he always says he will but then he doesn't.

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May 7th, 2012, 06:29 AM
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Originally Posted by .Katie. View Post
I would seriously look into getting a custody agreement written up.
This. I can't stress it enough. This, this, this. If he doesn't, he has NO recourse for this kind of thing.

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