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May 6th, 2012, 03:20 PM
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I was just notified by my child support agency that my exes entire tax return is heading my way to make up for back support. The last time something like this happened was in December when they finally found his 'secret' account where he was hiding money and they took 3,500. He freaked out. Bad.

I expect the same this week.

Considering what a jerk he was last weekend when it was just sprung on me that Daddy had a woman named April stay the night with them and oh yeah. he also left this new woman alone with Kaylee (our 3 year old) while he went into town with Julie and she also gave Kaylee a bath! I asked how long they had been dating before he decided to make the girls play house with her after just meeting and he wouldn't tell me anything. Told me he doesn't owe me anything and I don't deserve to know anything about her.

So, thanks for the money! Sorry if I am not as sympathetic to your financial predicament this time around.
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May 6th, 2012, 04:23 PM
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Good for you! And uh, screw him.
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May 6th, 2012, 05:15 PM
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Good! Get that money, he owes it. He wouldn't be in this situation if he paid his support.
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May 7th, 2012, 05:47 AM
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Hey, you need to do what you need to do. I'm glad that they're intervening for you!

I already commented a little about the gf elsewhere so I'll keep it short, but I'm really sorry he's being so uncooperative. My dsc's bm has had at least 3 boyfriends that we only knew about through comments she made to my in-laws. The guy she's "dated" for the last year has never been mentioned to us at all and there was at least one more before that was never mentioned either (although he was still married ) who was at least serious enough to be at the house often and at children's birthday parties. We can't approach it with her because she interprets it to mean that we're "fishing" for information because dh still wants to control her or some crap. It couldn't possibly be that he has a right to know which random guys are hanging around the kids or anything. Some people are so egotistical.
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May 7th, 2012, 05:58 AM
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im sorry that is just wrong...i hate when people try and play house...it makes my blood boil!!! so much that i sometimes have to back away..


and let him be mad! he should have paid on time!!
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May 7th, 2012, 07:26 AM
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Katie, is he working? Are his wages being garnished at all?
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May 7th, 2012, 12:57 PM
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yes we get cs now but he was still behind

julie said yesterday that frank fought with april on the phone and yelled at her so now he isnt going to see her anymore. julie was upset. seriously? one week? did he really have to involve my kids??
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I'm so sorry he's doing that to your girls!!!!

but yay for money!
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It's money thats owed to you and your child and I'm glad to hear you're finally getting it. Hopefully the explosion won't be too disruptive/damaging to the kids. It's never easy dealing with someone like that!

If you don't mind my asking, how were you notified by the child support agency? Was it through the mail/by phone? Im asking because my DH is wondering if he will see anything from DSS BM considering shes behind. I kinda doubt he will because I think she worked under the table. But if you're just now getting yours maybe theres still hope.
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May 7th, 2012, 09:19 PM
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I have email notifications from my dcs office so I know when to expect a check.

If your hubs ex waited until the last second to file then there's deff still a chance you also have something coming. My state (Wa state) made it mandatory last year that if a parent owes any back support it will be garnished from anything gained in their tax return first.
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May 8th, 2012, 10:24 AM
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Glad you're getting the money!

Sorry that he's doing that to the girls. It's a shame that some people just don't think before they act.
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May 8th, 2012, 08:50 PM
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yes we get cs now but he was still behind

julie said yesterday that frank fought with april on the phone and yelled at her so now he isnt going to see her anymore. julie was upset. seriously? one week? did he really have to involve my kids??
So classy Frank. What a tool.
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May 11th, 2012, 05:13 PM
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Ugh how gross. We go through this with BM2 and it's just a mess. Hang in there.
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