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May 9th, 2012, 07:15 PM
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and she's already trying to pay less. I can't believe this woman. DH paid 100-200 more than court ordered every month without complaining. Yet, she's already starting to complain and she's not even paying a cent yet. DH called her today to say hey the girl needs physical therapy for her shoulder 3 times a week for 6 weeks and $50 a pop each visit, so we need help. We've already paid hundreds into medical expenses for her and we're not even close to done. She's supposed to pay 80% of the medical, DH is only asking for half. She said she'd pay half every Friday until June, when support is due to kick in, cause she won't have any extra money. I mean really?! If DH pulled that crap her arse would have ran to court. I hate this woman with a **** passion and between the mind screw she's doing to DSD and this, I want her wiped off this planet already.
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May 9th, 2012, 11:14 PM
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If it's in the order that she has to pay 80%.. wave it at her a few times. If you guys took her for the 80%, then she'd end up with even less money in the end.
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May 10th, 2012, 06:39 AM
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Use your agreement if you have to. I'll skip the explanation on how to do that because you hardly need it but I think that if she's going to screw around it would be in your best interests to put your foot down early on - nip it in the bud, so to speak.
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May 10th, 2012, 09:28 AM
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That's the problem, this was the agreement that was in effect when Kev was paying support. He has yet to go to court for her paying him. His agreement hasn't even been terminated yet. The courts upstate refused to hear the two cases together so he has to wait until the end of this month. I'm afraid she's going to be a douche and tell the court he hasn't been paying these past few weeks, since legally he has to. I told him to keep the money aside and be prepared to cut a check if he is ordered to. They verbally agreed to keep the same agreement, just the role reversal. I said he was silly for doing that, but what can I do? It's out of my hands.
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May 10th, 2012, 10:19 AM
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Ah, that stinks. I didn't realize it hadn't been officially changed yet.
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May 10th, 2012, 01:10 PM
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Nope, court isn't until the end of the month and he won't file against her until she doesn't pay. Moron!
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May 10th, 2012, 01:35 PM
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that sucks! Hopefully she pays as ordered and you don't end up in court!
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