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  #1  
June 1st, 2012, 02:09 PM
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Hello my name A, and I'm with a man who has 3 children. Oldest is going to be 13 in August (boy) from one women then a girl who is going to be 13 from previous marriage and another boy who is 10 from the same previous marriage. We have a 5 month old together and I have a 5 year old from a previous relationship. August will be four years together. In this time there gave been many ups and downs. My dp has custody of his. 13 yr old daughter and his 9 yr old son. And of course we have our youngest 5 monther old. (Girl) we get his oldest some and my 5 yr old on weekends. I had never thought that step parenting Could be this hard. I hope I can learn from this board as well as vent.
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June 1st, 2012, 02:36 PM
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Hi and welcome to the group. You're surrounded by a great bunch here.
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June 1st, 2012, 03:22 PM
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Thanks! btw what does bm mean? Im sure it doesnt mean bowel movement in this case lol
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June 1st, 2012, 04:29 PM
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BM = Bio Mom
BD = Bio Dad or baby dance
DD = dear daughter
dsd = dear step daughter
ds = dear son
dss = dear step son
dh = dear husband

There is also a sticky with meanings to lots of board short cut talk.
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June 1st, 2012, 04:54 PM
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Welcome! I'm Rachel, we have my two, Sarah (23) and James (21 next month), his two William (13) and Clayton (11) and then our two, Daniel (6) and Keelan (10 months). All live at home currently and Sarah's daughter Gabby as well, she's almost 18 months.

How are your two step children both 13 and have different moms? I mean, I know things like that happen, just curious.
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June 1st, 2012, 04:59 PM
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Thanks K.A.T, I know most of them and I did check the post up top just didnt see that one

Rachel, he found out that his ex wife was pregnant, so he married her. Before that, she left him and he had a "one night stand" which I totally dont believe, but what ever. Anyways she called him one day and said hey Im pregnant. So his ex wife and his one nighter were pregnant at the same time dss born on august 5, and dsd born on Oct. 31.. A lot of ppl get confused lol
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June 1st, 2012, 06:20 PM
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I'm Katie Chloe is from Eric's first marriage and Julie and Kaylee are from my first marriage. Together we have one daughter, Paige who is 7 weeks old!
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June 1st, 2012, 06:22 PM
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My bro and sis are like that. My brother was born in March and sis in June. Her mom was the upstairs neighbor. WTG dad, he was a stand up guy.
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June 1st, 2012, 06:31 PM
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HI katie
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June 2nd, 2012, 12:28 PM
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Originally Posted by stucklikeglue
Thanks K.A.T, I know most of them and I did check the post up top just didnt see that one

Rachel, he found out that his ex wife was pregnant, so he married her. Before that, she left him and he had a "one night stand" which I totally dont believe, but what ever. Anyways she called him one day and said hey Im pregnant. So his ex wife and his one nighter were pregnant at the same time dss born on august 5, and dsd born on Oct. 31.. A lot of ppl get confused lol
Well my ex husband has two 20 year old children. My oldest son and then one 3 months younger. He was a real winner, that one.

It happens. I was just being nosey.
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June 2nd, 2012, 12:34 PM
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June 3rd, 2012, 03:04 PM
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Oh nothing wrong with being nosey. LOL Im just as bad. haha I ask him questions all the time about his "two" ex's I dont care about the women he never had a relationship with just the ones hes had kids with, I have to deal with those ones on a daily basis. smh
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June 4th, 2012, 10:29 AM
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Hi! Welcome
I'm Samantha DH and I have a 15 month old daughter together and he has two kids Ethan 7 and Kayley 5 from a previous relationship.
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June 4th, 2012, 11:15 AM
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Welcome! Sounds like you have a lot of ins & outs in you life. Very complicated.

I'm Kris btw. My dh has 2 dds from his previous marriage 17 & 13. They live in another state with their bm. The 17 year old has opted out of our family. We see the 13 year old 3-4 times per year.

I have a dd 10 from my previous marriage that dh adopted & we have ds 6 together.
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June 6th, 2012, 09:57 AM
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welcome!!
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June 6th, 2012, 10:49 AM
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Hi and Welcome!!!!
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