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July 6th, 2012, 11:35 PM
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And Eric's phone bleeps.

Mind you, he got heat exaustion today so he's been puking the last 6 hours straight.

I tell him his phone went off and he checks it and hands it to me. It's O's mom.

"Hey there. If O is still up, do you think maybe he can give me a call?"

Bleep Bleep

"I'm sorry if this text is a bit late, but he told me he gets to stay up late on summer nights and I'm really missing him right now."

Well, he was actually already passed out on the couch with his 3 cousins, (That's how Eric got heat exaustion. 4 kids at an indoor trampoline park for 2 hours will do that to a 32 year old!)

But still. Our CO says no calls after 9pm.

I'm a little worried about what's fueling her "I'm really missing him right now," is about. Since we just let her have him on Wednesday night so she saw him YESTERDAY. Hopefully just a mothers love. But with her ya never know.
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July 7th, 2012, 03:30 AM
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im assuming its just innocent..i see my kids every single day..but if i go a few hours of not seeing them yeah i start missing them!..

me + the older two are going to the movies soon to see spider man..which means miss ava will be staying with her daddy..its only a few hours and just thinking of it makes me miss her! lol..
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July 7th, 2012, 08:06 AM
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It's a little scary that she didn't have the filter & realize that 11:15 is very late for a kid O's age. I hope it's not a sign of anything too.
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July 7th, 2012, 10:52 AM
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im assuming its just innocent..i see my kids every single day..but if i go a few hours of not seeing them yeah i start missing them!..

me + the older two are going to the movies soon to see spider man..which means miss ava will be staying with her daddy..its only a few hours and just thinking of it makes me miss her! lol..
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It's a little scary that she didn't have the filter & realize that 11:15 is very late for a kid O's age. I hope it's not a sign of anything too.
That was my thought. WHY so late? I get missing your kid. We do it. But then we go to bed and call him in the morning. many times at 11 or 12 I've said I wonder what O is doing and Eric usually says "He is probably sleeping" Its sad she couldnt put that together
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July 7th, 2012, 11:13 AM
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Hopefully she just didn't realize how late it was & didn't look at the time.
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July 7th, 2012, 11:55 AM
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Hopefully she just didn't realize how late it was & didn't look at the time.
I doubt it. She said "Sorry if this text is a bit late but O said he gets to stay up pretty late on summer nights." We had him call her this morning and their conversation lasted 45 seconds
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July 7th, 2012, 11:54 PM
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that would bother me. I really hope she was just missing him and not drinking! I know I used to text people I loved more when drinking!
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Don't get warm fuzzies about that scenerio but if she was drinking then yay for O being with you guys, right?
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July 9th, 2012, 06:51 PM
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that would bother me. I really hope she was just missing him and not drinking! I know I used to text people I loved more when drinking!
Hopefully. She picked him up yesterday and nothing seemed "off" so hopefully it was just my overthinking.

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Don't get warm fuzzies about that scenerio but if she was drinking then yay for O being with you guys, right?
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July 10th, 2012, 10:47 AM
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It's natural for you to worry given her past. Best to be quietly vigilant for O's sake.

Does she still have to be tested? I thought there was a time she had to go in & be tested periodically. Is that over now?
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July 10th, 2012, 11:51 AM
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At first I was thinking eh it's normal, but when Kris brought up the drinking (which I forgot about) it did make me think other wise. Hopefully she wasn't' drinking it was just poor thinking on her part.
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July 10th, 2012, 12:26 PM
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That would raise red flags for me as well. I hope it was nothing, though!
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July 10th, 2012, 01:15 PM
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It's natural for you to worry given her past. Best to be quietly vigilant for O's sake.

Does she still have to be tested? I thought there was a time she had to go in & be tested periodically. Is that over now?
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At first I was thinking eh it's normal, but when Kris brought up the drinking (which I forgot about) it did make me think other wise. Hopefully she wasn't' drinking it was just poor thinking on her part.
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That would raise red flags for me as well. I hope it was nothing, though!
Her testing period is over, and she's back in her condo. She's cleaning it she says. But shes really packing because its going up for auction on august 13th. She doesnt know we know this, I looked it up on public record. So shes got a lot of stress in her life right now. And to top it off, she just updated her FB profile picture to this



She hasnt been brunette in years, so this picture may be old. But Eric says it looks new. I just... I dont know what to think of all this. She's a 34 year old nursing student. This picture just screams high school to me. Idk. Maybe Im just mad cuz shes pretty, lol
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July 10th, 2012, 07:30 PM
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I'm not familiar with your story, but that'd raise a red flag for me...
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July 10th, 2012, 11:11 PM
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I'm not familiar with your story, but that'd raise a red flag for me...
In a nutshell, she went through an 8 month period of alcoholism, neglecting O several times to where the court removed him from her custody and gave him to my FI, now we share joint custody
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hopefully it's nothing
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