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July 23rd, 2012, 07:53 PM
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So we moved up the East Coast during Tropical Storm Debby. M hated being cooped up but we got through it. He also had some more major tantrum days but as long as he got his am meds and wasn't too bored he was good and happy. There were some MAJOR snafus when we dropped him off. They'd had some major weather issues so we relied on them to notify M's mother when we were bringing him back. No one did. So she wasn't there. We also found out that because she owes her dad (M's grandfather) rent (she was living there rent free but then everything went down and she wouldn't leave her husband so he started asking for rent) he hasn't been following the order for visitation. M is NOT seeing his mother once a week like he's supposed to. His grandfather gives his mom some excuse. Also meds got screwed and he's missing an am med and the script is flowing in the wind. Rather than pinning any odd behavior on that, M's grandmother is claiming we hurt him which M is quick to deny. (He misses his daddy, me, Nana and Pop and sushi ) So my husband flies out sometime this week to leave for deployment and I get the joy of filing an affidavit containing facts about his visit and a motion of contempt along with my POA by myself. And I'm pregnant. Woohoo summer!
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July 23rd, 2012, 10:09 PM
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Wow that's a lot. Good luck and happy summer?
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July 24th, 2012, 06:44 AM
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As far as his grandmother goes...for as much as she says she loves him you'd think she'd want him to be happy. But yeah she's convinced he can only be happy with her or his grandfather not having any rules or anything like that. She's been really rude and disrespectful to both M's mother and my husband in court. (Why she's there I dunno.) I just....ugh.

I agree with almost everyone that M's mom's husband is a prick and a dumb one at that but she still loves M. Always has. She's just...she loved my husband and she could have had her life's dreams but she got needy and threw it away when she cheated on him. And her parents twisted the pain she had and kept putting things in her ear like if he loved his son he'd make an honest woman out of you blah blah blah he doesn't need to see him. And now they're doing the same to her and it just sucks because they claim to love M but they're so selfish about it.
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July 24th, 2012, 06:52 AM
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My head is spinning just reading all of that!

I'm sorry that the grandmother is being such a pain.
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July 24th, 2012, 07:13 AM
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It's so much. And I feel so ill. I also feel like I can't take a breath to process all of it. This is our first together and he's gonna miss everything. Did I mention I'm in school and the move has me WAY behind? Plus when all of this started I weaned off my depression and anxiety meds because their county is just that backwoods. And yet more stuff keeps getting piled on. I'd love for DH to be here when we file this paperwork but we can't afford the filing fee until after payday and he'll be gone.
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July 24th, 2012, 07:22 AM
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I'm so sorry. I would be hugely overwhelmed too. I'll be thinking of you as you navigate all of this craziness and hope things settle down as soon as possible.
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July 24th, 2012, 08:29 AM
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oh man that's alot to handle while pregnant!
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July 24th, 2012, 10:22 AM
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Sorry that you will be dealing with all of this alone. I hope that it is quick and simple and that your pregnancy doesn't have you feeling bad for too much longer. You are so close to the 2nd tri. My nausea had worn off by about 10 weeks.
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July 25th, 2012, 10:19 AM
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He left last night. I am just....so crushed. I miss him. I woke up this morning and it took me a few to realize he wasn't just at work.
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