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As of tomorrow she has no place to live! They have been evicted for the 4th or 5th time since Jonah and I have been together. Their electric has been off for a week! Robert is back living with us full time and is enrolled in school from here! We are going to the court house and filing a modification of custody and change in child support. This woman thinks we are going to keep paying her child support while he lives with us. We now have proof he lives with us because he is enrolled in school at our address.
It gets better, they had the nerve to ask could they come stay with us until they find somewhere to live! We said Robert can. No one else. We are not a homeless shelter. My 3 br 2 ba house will not stand for 7 more people to live in it. Plus my husbands ex wife is NOT living with us! And they still want us to go get her man or let them use our van to go get her man! Our thoughts on this is if he is such a man, why doesn't he have his on way to get here from North Carolina? Oh yeah, and they are getting married as soon as he gets here.
We were floored when she asked to move in here! Robert will always have a home here! He will never go without if it is within our power to do it, nor will Sean and Dani. However, having either one of our ex-spouses live here with us is never going to happen.
I could also not imagine having 12 people living in my small home! If some of the able bodied people who live in the apartment with her would work, they might be in a better situation. They move somewhere, get an apartment or house, constantly find something wrong with it, find a sucker to let them put utilities in their name because they all have delinquent accounts, and stay till they are evicted, and run from the utilities, leaving the sucker who had the utilities hanging with the bill.
Wow I had to laugh because she sounds like my husband's ex wife!! Right after we moved in together she came over one day asking to talk to him in private. They went outside and when he came back in he told me she cried to him that her boyfriend (who she left my husband for) was being abusive. She went on to ask him if she could come live with us and promised she would not be any trouble or bother us! Ummm...just having her there would bother me!
Hubby already had custody of his kids. I told him if she comes I leave....the choice became simple for him then. He had actually felt badly for her and contemplated allowing it for short-term till I put things in perspective for him.
Anyways its been years and her and the abusive boyfriend are together and have a few kids together. They live places till the eviction happens and then they find a new place. They usually rent small houses so I am assuming that the owners are not running background checks and her and her boyfriend must be creating paystubs and other documents to make themselves look good.