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okay maybe that's a bit over dramatic but seriously..
she had a job as a CNA, a good one .. she worked weekends so she could be at home with the kids during the school week well I guess with it being summer she got tired of missing out on weekend fun with the kids being gone and quit or something like three weeks ago, she started working at a restaurant and last night she told DH she was sick for three days so they put her down to 8 hrs this week and how she will probably need extra CS ..
I looked at her FB and she was tagged and post herself in pictures going to a carnival and an animal farm and the lake and a birthday party so I really don't think she was "sick"
why would you quit a good steady job when you claim you are barely making ends meet and then screw over the new job? especially when you live in a town of like 2500 people and there aren't many jobs at all...
and I could understand if this was the first time she has done this.. but its like just when she starts to be a responsible adult and get on her feet she does something and goes back to her old ways and does the same cycle all over again..
I'm sorry. I'm sure this is frustrating for you. It's crappy that because of her irresponsibility she just expects to get more child support. It's not to support her, it's to HELP support the kids. I'm sorry you have to deal with this!
She feels like she's missing out. I know with BM1 she was just young and crazy. DH was young too (both under 16). So for a hot minute they were both like....wait what? With BM2...her family is controlling. A person could be nice but if he didn't make enough money her mom wouldn't watch M for her. Just wouldn't. If she thought a job wasn't good enough for her, then she wouldn't watch M so BM2 could go to an interview. So while she never left him alone, she brought a lot of people to the house she shouldn't have and she feels horrible about it now.
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Oh she changes Boyfriends even more frequently, everytime she has ever moved it was for a boyfriend and then immediately after they'd break up and she would be broke..
she's 28, I'm 23 and I'm 10 times more responsible than her.!