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August 19th, 2012, 04:03 PM
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Neely is currently sitting in front of W&C's mom's house waiting for the police because she refuses to give him the boys. She told him that I agreed to allow them to spend the week with her this week.

1. I did not agree to anything.
2. She didn't mention or confirm that that was the case when she picked them up.
3. I said "see you on Sunday" to the boys when they left and she didn't mention it then.
4. She's crazy.

I want to bash her head in.
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August 19th, 2012, 04:09 PM
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Oh gosh, Rachel. That's insanity! I hope that the police get there soon and this all settles down before it gets (even more) out of hand. Wow.
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August 19th, 2012, 04:17 PM
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Are you for real?? What is WRONG with that woman!?
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August 19th, 2012, 04:17 PM
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The police won't do anything. They gave Neely an incident report and told him to file a motion tomorrow. OMG, this woman!
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August 19th, 2012, 04:27 PM
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Wow. Just wow.
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August 19th, 2012, 04:59 PM
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That's all they can do but it documents what happened so that you have evidence to take to court. I had to do that quite often back in the day.
That's your only "proof" so to speak that she violated the court order.
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August 19th, 2012, 05:02 PM
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Oh wow!
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August 19th, 2012, 05:03 PM
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Proof proof proof. Gah that makes me angry for you.
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August 19th, 2012, 05:05 PM
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omg.... no flipping way. That woman is off her rocker.
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August 19th, 2012, 05:07 PM
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Quote:
If a child is under the age of 16 years, a relative who knows that another person is the lawful custodian of the child may not:
(1) abduct, take, or carry away the child from the lawful custodian to a place within this State;
(2) having acquired lawful possession of the child, detain the child within this State for more than 48 hours after the lawful custodian demands that the child be returned;
(3) harbor or hide the child within this State, knowing that possession of the child was obtained by another relative in violation of this section; or
(4) act as an accessory to an act prohibited by this section.
After Tuesday at 7:00p.m., she'll be guilty of a misdemeanor. I talked to our attorney and we're going to file a Motion to Compel tomorrow morning and then have her charged by Wednesday if she doesn't comply.
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August 19th, 2012, 05:10 PM
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Thats just insane!!!
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August 19th, 2012, 07:13 PM
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Insane that it has to come to this.... I'm glad you and Neely are willing to have her charged, some people would chicken out.
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August 19th, 2012, 07:20 PM
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Way to stick to your guns as far as having her charged goes!

I was worried the police weren't going to be able to do anything as I started to read it.
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August 19th, 2012, 08:31 PM
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OH MY FLIPING GOD! The words I want to use towards this woman aren't allowed on JM. I hope she faces some serious consequences.
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August 20th, 2012, 07:29 AM
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That's just crazy! This will not help her in court. What is she thinking????
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August 20th, 2012, 08:00 AM
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As usual, she's thinking she can write her own rules or that the real rules don't apply to her.
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August 20th, 2012, 08:01 AM
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what in the world is wrong with her?!!!
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August 20th, 2012, 08:13 AM
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she's a nut case those poor boys are going through so much because of her selfishness
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August 20th, 2012, 12:44 PM
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So our plan is:

Send her an email to tell her that she must make the children available prior to tomorrow night at 7 p.m. or Neely will pursue criminal charges immediately thereafter. We did that.

Once charges are filed (if we have to get that far), we will see how that plays out. Our attorney is not sure what the court's procedure will be. If they issue an arrest warrant, they will likely notify us so that we can be there to pick up the children when she is served. They could also issue a simple criminal summons and we don't know if they'll send a sheriff to get the kids or what. So after that all plays out tomorrow/Wednesday, we will file a Motion for Contempt with the Court where our case is currently of record. Our attorney doesn't want to give her an opportunity to get in front of a Master or Judge right now because he's afraid that she'll get someone that is sensitive to her cause and usurp our current order and allow her to keep the kids or worse, change the order. He wants to see the criminal charges play out first.

This also puts us in a position to have to potentially reschedule Will's counseling that was scheduled for Friday and I have to wonder if she didn't do this in an effort to sabotage the counseling. She's crazy so anything is possible.
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August 20th, 2012, 01:04 PM
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oh my word
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