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August 22nd, 2012, 07:30 AM
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Still no kids yet.

We filed our charges. The commissioner said they would issue a criminal summons. That's going to be weeks if not a month away. The commissioner said that we should take our court order to the police precinct and ask to speak with the shift supervisor about the situation and ask someone to accompany us to get the kids. She said she lived in Carroll County (where we live), they would have returned the kids to Neely Sunday night. She doesn't understand why Baltimore County wouldn't do the same. Our lawyer doesn't understand either.

So we drove the 1+ hour to the police precinct in her area and went in with our court order, a copy of the law and a copy of the charges we had just filed and NOTHING!

So our only course of action is to file a Petition for Contempt in the court of record. Our attorney suggested that we not do that unless she fails to return the kids on Sunday. His reasoning is that the court may not see this as an an emergency, but if she doesn't return them so they can start school on Monday, then it is an emergency. I follow that and while it sucks that she's getting her way, essentially, she's going to get it with a criminal record and of course, her continued disregard for court orders is going to bite her in the butt.
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August 22nd, 2012, 07:50 AM
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I don't understand why they're doing things the way they are. I'm sorry this keeps dragging out!

You're right, though - she really doesn't 'win' if she ends up with a record over this and puts yet another black mark on her reputation with the court. Is she still trying to get custody back? This is only going to hurt her chances (not that they were great to start with).
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August 22nd, 2012, 08:14 AM
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She is a nut case. I am sorry it is taking so long to get this resolved.
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August 22nd, 2012, 09:08 AM
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I don't understand why they're doing things the way they are. I'm sorry this keeps dragging out!

You're right, though - she really doesn't 'win' if she ends up with a record over this and puts yet another black mark on her reputation with the court. Is she still trying to get custody back? This is only going to hurt her chances (not that they were great to start with).
She hasn't dismissed her petition to modify custody, but she hasn't done anything she's supposed to do either. We have a Motion for Sanctions pending and she has till Friday to respond to it. The court will rule on the motion afterwards and one of the things we have asked for is for her petition to be dismissed. She still hasn't answered the interrogatories either.
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Good Lord!
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August 22nd, 2012, 10:28 AM
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I would be screaming with frustration!
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August 22nd, 2012, 11:26 AM
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In OH the court has to issue an order to allow the police or county sheriffs to assist in custodial matters. Until then it's a civil matter. Some places have screwy rules.
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August 22nd, 2012, 11:29 AM
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How frustrating! I can't believe they won't do anything. I hope the boys are ok.
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August 22nd, 2012, 12:04 PM
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In OH the court has to issue an order to allow the police or county sheriffs to assist in custodial matters. Until then it's a civil matter. Some places have screwy rules.
That's interesting.
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August 22nd, 2012, 12:25 PM
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I'm sorry you have to deal with this Rachel. Unfortunately you can't reason with crazy... but you already know that. Hang in there.
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August 22nd, 2012, 12:46 PM
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That's interesting.
Interestingly stupid.
Rachel likes this.
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August 22nd, 2012, 01:02 PM
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I think this is foolish.

DH says it's not fair either.. if he refused to send Reme home when he was supposed to, they'd haul him off to jail and call it kidnapping.

I hope at the very least, she sends them home Sunday. This is going to look terrible on her if your custody stuff does go before a judge.
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August 22nd, 2012, 02:23 PM
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all she is doing is hurting the kids and shooting herself in the foot. because this is going to help her case right?
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I can't believe the cops won't do anything. How infuriating!
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August 22nd, 2012, 02:46 PM
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all she is doing is hurting the kids and shooting herself in the foot. because this is going to help her case right?
It can't help, for sure!
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August 22nd, 2012, 02:58 PM
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Wow I'm so sorry Rachel!!
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