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  #41  
September 20th, 2012, 12:17 PM
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If you are just needing to stay inside while your boy friend walks the little boy to the car and gets him in and they leave, I don't think you are really being trapped. it's a few minutes. 10 tops? I think you can survive that long doing something else. say your good bye inside, and let BF take him out to his mother.

I've been the crazy pregnant/post pregnant one. PPD is one thing and there is also PPP and ti can happen while pregnant. since I don't know the full story, it's possible this is what got to her while pregnant. it's sad that there was an ill effect on the little boy, but lets face it, **** happens when you are pregnant.

as far as potty training not even 2 is early, really early for a boy even, don't push it. pick your battles. now if he's 4 or 5 and this is still an issue then you can get this upset, other wise I'd just leave it.

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September 20th, 2012, 06:47 PM
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Well. they do have a written custody agreement. What it says...no clue. I do know it includes going out of state and schedules.

I cant convince BF that court is important because he doesnt sense her about to go nuts again.

overall C is a happy well adjusted child who only wanted his dog when we got him yesterday, zoomed past everyone looking for this dumb dog. THIS is most important.

If hands offs only last 10 mins and not 25-40 I might not feel trapped. last week I cleaned up toys, dishes and started laundry...still felt trapped.

In the mean time. BM DID make huge efforts to communicate with BF on tuesday night because she knew it wouldnt happen wed afternoon.

I do not think we are pushing anything with PTing he rips his diaper off and sits on the potty, we dont really even ask if he has to go anymore.

yes, I did ask for advice, just because I got some I didnt like doesnt mean I am angry at anything. I am/was more angry at my situation than anything because I do put so much in to our relationship that I was butt hurt.

I know I have NO legal grounds and that may change in the future, it might not. my step dad didnt and he was and still is a major part of my life.
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