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November 1st, 2012, 09:25 AM
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Jen,

Clayton has been invited to a sleepover party for the next weekend that he and Will are supposed to be with you. The party is from noon on Saturday the 10th to 4:00 pm on Sunday, the 11th. It is at his friend, Cole's house. Clayton really wants to go.

I propose that we do either of the following:

Switch weekends. You can have them this weekend or any other weekend of your choosing in place of the weekend of November 9-11th.

or

Pick up Will at the regularly scheduled time and allow Clayton to stay home so that he can attend his party.

Clayton will probably mention this to you when you talk this week, but I wanted to give you a head's up. Please let me know if either of these options work for you. I would hate for Clayton to miss this party as he has missed all other parties that he's been invited to because they happened to fall on your weekend.

Neely
I'm sure she won't agree, but at least we tried. And Clayton knows we tried and if she says no, she better have a reason to give him because he will be upset.
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November 1st, 2012, 09:30 AM
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*sigh* I hope he gets to go. That's not even remotely fair.
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November 1st, 2012, 09:55 AM
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If she's like Chloe's BM she will say no. Because it's about her happiness, not the kids. Right?
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November 1st, 2012, 10:10 AM
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I will certainly think much less of her if she refuses to let him go. if that's even possible at this point.
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November 1st, 2012, 10:17 AM
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I mean I get that you don't have your child full time so your time with them is limited and that's sacred to you but at the same time....the older they get the more of a social life they have. They wouldn't be in your house up your *** if you had them full time. Ugh.
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November 1st, 2012, 10:29 AM
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I mean I get that you don't have your child full time so your time with them is limited and that's sacred to you but at the same time....the older they get the more of a social life they have. They wouldn't be in your house up your *** if you had them full time. Ugh.
Yes, this. This is about the age that my older kids' social life started interfering with their visits to their dad. He adapted, thankfully, and we never had an issue. I mean, there were even times that he took some of their friends to his house for the weekend because my kids and their BFFs couldn't handle being apart.

I would, of course, never suggest that to W&C because frankly, I wouldn't want to expose any other kids to her kind of crazy.
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November 1st, 2012, 10:43 AM
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But Moooooooooooooom he's my frrrrrrieeeeeeeeend. We HAAAAAAAAAAAAVE to hang out this weekend. *cue teenage dramatics*
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November 1st, 2012, 11:01 AM
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You have to let us know her response. Should be interesting!
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November 1st, 2012, 11:26 AM
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oh let u sknow how this all goes!
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November 1st, 2012, 11:29 AM
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But Moooooooooooooom he's my frrrrrrieeeeeeeeend. We HAAAAAAAAAAAAVE to hang out this weekend. *cue teenage dramatics*
LOL. I so remember my friends pulling that on their custodial parent when we were kids. It seemed that no one ever planned anything on the weekends that they were home in their own house, only the weekend they were away.
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November 1st, 2012, 11:58 AM
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Please let us know how she responds!
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November 1st, 2012, 01:09 PM
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November 1st, 2012, 06:30 PM
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To confirm your conversation with Rachel of today, you have agreed to forego your scheduled visitation weekend with Will & Clayton on the weekend of November 9th-11th. In place of that weekend, you will have visitation with them on the weekend of November 16th-18th.

Additionally, since your next weekend after that falls on the weekend after Thanksgiving, and you are entitled to one-half of the holiday (per the agreement), you indicated that you would pick the boys up between 2 and 3 on Thursday, November 22nd and they would return as scheduled on November 25th.

Thanks for your cooperation with this.

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November 1st, 2012, 06:43 PM
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YAY!!
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November 1st, 2012, 07:57 PM
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Oh man hell has frozen over. I'm glad he gets to go.
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November 1st, 2012, 09:00 PM
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Well lookit there!
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November 1st, 2012, 09:26 PM
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AWESOME! It's so refreshing when they surprise you in a good way!
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November 2nd, 2012, 02:35 AM
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November 2nd, 2012, 10:45 AM
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So glad she agreed! Hope she doesn't rear her ugly head about it later.
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