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July 25th, 2006, 10:41 PM
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TTC your #1 while DH already has kids?? How does that make you feel??

I am TTC my #1 and my dh already has 2 from a previous marriage. I was just wondering if someone else was going through the same thing?
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July 26th, 2006, 06:41 AM
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we had our first together and he already has a daughter..i did feel weird having his baby when he already had a kid by someone else..
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July 26th, 2006, 07:56 AM
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We had our first when he already had a son with his ex-wife. It was weird having a baby with him when he already had a child. I remember when I was pregnant I would think 'is he going to treat my baby different than he does his son' and 'will he be able to love her as much.' I was worried about a lot of things. I also felt really uncomfortable around his ex-wife and her family and I think it made him uncomfortable too.
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July 26th, 2006, 02:55 PM
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I wonder the same things all of the time. He seems excited about TTC and so do his kids because they want another sibling. I often wonder if he is just excited for me or because he wants a baby with me. KWIM?? I have asked him and he said that he is excited about having a baby with me but sometimes it feels so strange.
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July 27th, 2006, 01:44 PM
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I have the opposite situation...I am pregnant with his first, but I already have a son from my previous marriage. It is a weird situation and I wonder if deep down he feels weird about it.
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July 28th, 2006, 12:52 AM
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I am relieved to know that it is the same way! I thought that I was just crazy for thinking of all of that! If I get pregnant it will probably feel even more weird! LOL
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