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April 1st, 2013, 11:53 AM
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Not sure if this is good news or bad news. But BM is back with her ex. The one who beat her and was supposed to go to counseling and rehab but didn't. Not sure if he ended up eventually going, I just now he lied about it when they first split up.

On Easter the grandparents called the kids and said hello. After sd made a comment about how bm wasn't living with grandparents anymore. I asked why not and she said she didn't know, but they said that and said there was plenty of room for her and her brother to come visit this summer.

So I e-mailed bm's cousin, who I am friendly with and she dislikes bm. She said that bm was sneaking around with her bf again and her parents found out. They told her he was bad news, etc. and she moved out and went back to him. They are very upset but obviously can't do anything about it.

So for us its good news because bm's parents (especially bm's mother) will probably stop being so rude and pushy towards us...though since we stopped responding to her she can't be anyways. But I have a feeling the kids won't hear from bm again anytime soon. Hubby said if bm is gone that he is going to let the kids go see the grandparents this summer, with the stipulation that they are not to be alone with bm and are not allowed to be around the bf at all. period. If they agree the kids can go there to visit, if not then they will have to come here if they want to see them.
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April 1st, 2013, 06:42 PM
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ugh. I don't get how people can't learn from their mistakes... I just don't get it!

Hopefully the grandparents become less hostile, and I hope they do agree to the stipulations so the kids can get to see them
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April 2nd, 2013, 07:50 AM
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I hope now the grandparents see that BM really doesn't care about the kids and was just doing it for show..
Hopefully they'll agree to the terms and the kids can have a nice visit with them
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