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July 7th, 2005, 12:53 PM
in_mommy's Avatar I am just me
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I dont want to get into a lot of details about it all, but here is a little of what is going on. Stepson (SS) moved in with us a few months ago because he was in so much trouble at his moms house. Well he has been locked up a couple of times now and recently came off house arrest here. He took off yesterday, the day that he came off house arrest, and lied to us about where he was going and doing. He is constantly smoking in the house and hiding it, my DS is allergic to cigarette smoke!! I found more butts hidden in the wall this afternoon, a roach clip, and not sure if it was pot or tobacco rolled up in a yogurt foil top that had been smoked! He doesnt care, he doesnt follow the rules!! I cant take much more!!!
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July 9th, 2005, 06:03 PM
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That is a hard one! I grew up with brothers like that, and it was tough. What does your DH say about it?
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July 10th, 2005, 12:16 PM
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I would not allow him to live in my home........sorry......you don't respect or follow the rules....you are out. I would tell DH it's him or me.........sorry so harsh....but, I would not tolerate another woman's child's bulls**t!

My friend had 2 step sons living with her.......they were disrespectful and just bad....she gave her husband an ultimatum........her or them........the boys moved out.

My DH has a son that comes here every other weekend. He's still young..he's 8, but I make sure that he knows there are rules....if he gets older and becomes disrespectful....he will not be permitted to stay with us.......DH could visit with him outside our home, but not in my house. If he's a nice respectful kid...that's a different story. I would never tolerate a kid smoking in my home......especially if my child was allergic.

Sorry it's so hard for you......it's not fair to you.....you shouldn't have to go through this stress.
You need to talk to your DH and stand your ground.

Good luck!!!

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