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Bf and i are currently raising his daughter.Mom left when she was 1. I have had 2 mcs and bf says alot of times well we are lucky we have her.I dont wanna sound mean but its not enough for me.She just isnt enough.I tell him she isnt mine and he doesnt understand.Is what i feel normal?
wOw this can be a toughie ... I understand what you are trying to say and maybe it is hard for him to understand because in his mind he thinks you guys already have a child ... seeing as you are with him raiseing her ... it is NOT selfish to feel the way you do .... I love my step kids and my son even but there was a part of me who longed for a baby of our own as well .... Have you tried explaining to him that although you love his lil girl there is a part of you that is empty and you feel the need to fill that void ... I really think you 2 need to sit down and talk some more ... and REALLY listen to each other ... I am sure if he actually listens to what is in your heart it will help the situation ...at least for you guys to come to a understanding.