Tired of her taking it out on me~vent

blueyedbabii · #1 January 26th, 2011, 06:34 AM

my brother is worthless for the most part. He's my little brother and I love him but he is pretty much worthless. And I'm really really really tired of when my mom is fighting with him ( well right now she's fighting with everybody) but yesterday they got into this huge fight and this morning she wakes up and has this nasty attitude with me and finally I asked what her issue is and she jsut went off like blah blah blah. Her "issue" with me right now is.... I left laundry unfolded in the basket to LEAVE FOR SCHOOL. Mind you i had jsut found the laundry there about an hour before hand when i brought MY laundry up to be folded. She didn't tell me about it, ask me to do it or anything. Just left it in the living room (which i rarely go into anymore) and got mad b/c i had time to fold my laundry (umm yea it's mine it's what i was doing yesterday) got started on hers but didn't finish. Ok so I may not work the 40 hours a week you do, but I'm trying. I'm working 2 jobs, going to classes that both give a lot of homework, I'm taking care of Jake AND STILL TRYING TO BE 25. Just really irritates me b/c she's nasty when she's being mean i'm doing everything in my power to bite my tounge (i have this tendency to tell what i think when she makes me mad). I just needed to vent cuz you know i try and whatever this IS NOT MY HOUSE. Yes I help but no matter what the responsibility does not fall on me. Sorry thats how i feel and when it was me living with my sons dad and not with them thats what my mom used to tell me. No matter what, no matter who helps it's your problem if it doesn't get done so now i live in her house and the same rules don't apply? it's not like im not doing anything at all. I'm just not making it so she doesn't have to do anything and think that bs.

my.estrella · #2 January 26th, 2011, 07:08 AM

I'm so sorry you're dealing with this. My Mom is the same exact way. I can count ONE time that she's cleaned this house. If something needs to be done she blames me for not doing it. I agree with you, it's HER house first.

Declyn&Me · #3 January 26th, 2011, 01:51 PM

thats a hard situation hun. im sorry.
just remember, someday it will be yourhouse with you and your son, and you wont have to deal with that. suffer now for a big reward later.