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I was just curious how many of you have your baby daddies on your facebook friends list?
Will is still on mine, but I am really thinking about removing him as a friend. He is just p.issing me off when it comes to how little he cares about Ryder. It's been nearly 2 months since he has so much as sent me a text asking how the "little one" was doing. And over a month since he's texted me at all. He sent one saying his mom had sent him a few little things and I could get them "just whenever". Well, he's a good 20 minutes away if you hit the lights right, and I never felt like driving out there so I told him to bring them to my work, the half way point between his place and mine, and he never replied and I haven't heard from him since then. The other day he posted that he's "thinking of taking applications for his new female prospect" and that cracked me up. Good luck, maybe all your relationships before me only lasted a month or two cause they caught on that you need medication! Then the other day he posted "I'm a BADA.SS, you're just an a.ss- my new motto" and I so wanted to say that he was the a.ss but I didn't want to start drama on facebook. This morning he posted new pics of his dog, yet he has none up of Ryder. My sis said she had tagged him in some of the pics she posted right after he was born and he either removed the tags or facebook did when she deleted him as a friend. But I deleted my uncle awhile ago and his page is public and it still shows the pics I tagged him in... so all I'm left to think is that HE removed the tags. If that's how it is, why the h.ell is he still on my friends list? He's not my friend. I don't care about him. He can go to hell and it would be no skin off my back. I never did get the stuff from his mom, so she told me to just forget it that she'd send the stuff directly to me from now on.
They did send us a little Valentine's box which was nice. Chocolates and a $25 check for me as well as an "Invitation to Prayer for Mothers" journal thing. I believe in God, yes, but to me religion is a very personal thing and I almost wonder if it was like they're trying to say something about me but I think they were just trying to be nice. They sent Ryder an old navy long sleeve shirt sized 12/18 months so he may or may not fit it next year. He's almost in 9 month clothes as it is! The also sent a Curious George book and duck set that can go in the bath tub with him. I'm sure he'll like it when he's older.
Anyway, this was long, random vant got thrown in there I guess lol. But are any of your kids' dad's on your friends list?
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Last edited by katiebear; February 25th, 2011 at 08:18 AM.
Austin's dad is on my facebook friends... it's the only way i have to contact him right now. I set the privacy settings though so he can't see any of my posts or pictures. So he doesn't get any updates on Austin unless he asks for them... he hasn't asked, and he hasn't acknowledged that Austin is even alive.
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FOB hasn't been on there since we moved out. He doesn't ask about Danny unless I tell him he is sick (I wouldn't except that I am required by state law to tell his deadbeat dad when he is sick. ) Anyway...he isn't now and as far as I am concerned won't be at all.
He used to be.. but he is not on their anymore cause he got mad at me which is fine... he doesnt need to know really. But we are on alright terms now. i actually looked at his FB b.c some of it is public... and he is in a relationship now LOL
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He was on mine, until we split. It kind of pisses me off because he's still involved, & we're on good terms - && he has friends of MINE.. Ugh.. but whatever! I really don't care in the long run. I can still see his profile, & go there from time to time, but he's rarely on it anyway, & when he is it's just stupid quotes from video games... yep, that's his life.
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Griffin's dad blocked me out of the blue midway through my pregnancy. I was hurt at the time since I avoided posting anything about the baby's sex since he wanted be surprised and went out of my way to asked my friends to do the same. I rarely update FB at all, so I didn't understand (still don't) why he did it. Maybe it is for the best, though, because seeing his updates now would just make me sad or angry.
Right, but what should I do about his family who are still on? The ones that actually care about Ryder... but being family I know they'd leak stuff to him...
Not sure if I mentioned up there or not but my sis tagged him in pics of Ryder and he removed them. I want him gone but want to do it "right". If there is such a thing...
