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So I am okcupid and I started talking to a 20 year old. I'm 23 and I usually go for older guys but he seem to be interesting and we shared a lot of the same beliefs. Okay so we have been planning the big meet. First we were going to met a couple weeks ago and he made and excuse and than he agreed on Today and I said don't get cold feet on me,he replied with "I won't." So today he writes and says he has a headache. I'm like ww and I told him I hope he feels better but its whatever because I am tired of him canceling out on me when I could have made other plans. So I am done with dating. Stuff like that is discouraging. Also its a red flag to me if we were to pursue a relationship. Plus he is too young lol.
This is why I don't date and probably won't for while. I agree that him flaking out is a red flag for what the future would hold if you were to pursue a relationship. Hang in there girl if it was ment to be it will be.
I would just be done with him. Sounds like a real douche bag! But totally cancel dating out. I mean you don't have to put yourself out there, but keep the idea open. It may just happen when you least expect it... or at least that's what I'm hoping for!
That guy sounds like a total flake and I agree keep yourself open as like to have something to fall into our lap unexpectedly ! That's what I am hoping for also as I don't have any luck with online sites .
Thanks ladies so much. I tried to post yesterday but my phone gives me a really hard time. Maybe one day I will meet a guy who will change my mind about men but nope. I was starting to really like him. He actually asked questions about me and not about sex.