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October 26th, 2011, 01:21 PM
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At times when I say I want to meet a guy but then when there is a guy in the area who hangs around the spot where we are at or tries to help us .

I don't know if I should say Yes or No because most of the time I say No because I'm too cautious as I fear something bad will happen .

How do I know when a person is a good person vs a bad person


For example I have gone to our gas station where I walk to alot and I have had guys say hey you want me to help you with this not bad looking guys so I go no thanks .


One guy who was too old for me he saw me counting coins at BK then he said I want to buy her anything she wants and he did . I thought it was nice but still a bit cautious thinking was he just being nice and I stuck around until for that guy was gone because you never know .

So then at the grocery store this Average looking guy very Curly red headed guy follows Brendan and I in a store then he moves the cart that is in front of us over when we are in the aisle . Then stands around our cart as in his Back is on our cart which make me go hmmmmm .
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October 26th, 2011, 02:35 PM
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The last part would raise some flags. And I definitely would be cautious. I'm kinda to the point, I tell people I don't know point blank, don't touch my cart (even if moving it) with my child in it.

Point in case, this happened a few weeks ago at Kroger and this woman I didn't know started moving my cart out of the isle w/ little man in it, just so she could put her cart in the isle instead. I saw it out of the corner of my eyes and I told the woman and her husband point blank, I don't know you therefore don't move or touch my cart again.

Her husband tried to say it was no big deal but to me it was, because i didnt know them.. Then he reached for my cart again and I had to threaten to get the store manager.

When I did that, they both left very quickly.
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October 27th, 2011, 10:36 AM
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I haven't had any issues at all with guys. But I am definitely more cautious around things like that when I have K with me.
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October 27th, 2011, 11:39 AM
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I havent really had any issues with guys..but im sure if i did i would be cautious
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October 27th, 2011, 01:02 PM
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