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Emerysn's father is moving back up here - he's been living 2 hours away & seeing her for 1 weekend a month (which worked for us)... but him and his partner are now moving back up here, and I'm torn about it. As far as Em goes, I'm happy - because she'll get every weekend with her Dad (something Gaby has NEVER had..). BUT as far as I go, I'm not looking forward to it. Although I have absolutely nooooo feelings for him (more of a case of 'what was I thinking'...) he has a partner and I'm so jealous.. I hate that he's happy and I'm single and lonely... I've also started feeling very stupidly jealous about the fact that when him & his partner are out with Emmy, people will think SHE is Emmy's Mum, and that they're this happy little family. Not rational... but still.. can't help it......
I wanna say i soo understand...part of me wants to answer this one way and the other part wants me to answer on my pregnancy hormones...
I should say that i think its awesome that she will get to see her daddy every weekend..but why not every other weekend instead? what if you had plans for the weekend? also does he work weekends? if so will she be left alone with "her"?
the other part of me....
I should just say that in my situation there was no way in H-E double hockey sticks was he going to parade my daughter around with "her" as some happy family..Ive have made it pretty clear that ava will never be left alone with her i better stop cause im bitter...
for a LONG time jake wasn't allowed to alone with her. I still feel that way a lot but it helps that jake tells me shes not his mommy and never will be. Plus i realized it's not hat hard for him to lie (he does all the time anyway) so who's to know if jake's alone with HER or not b/c even if he is BD will never admit it.
I feel the same way. I hate when my ex has our kid and him and his girlfriend (along with her daughter and nephew) act like they're this wonderful family. I also feel the same way about having my son left alone with "her" but unfortunately, I don't have a choice. My ex gets Kaisen every other weekend and works just about every Saturday and at least one Sunday a month. So Kaisen is left with "her" and her daughter and nephew at least one day of the weekend, if not both. It sucks. As far as I know, she's good to him. But she smokes around him and I can see her favoring her kid and nephew over Kaisen (although I don't know for sure).
I hope it works out and you start feeling better about it after awhile.
I understand and feel the same way. We made an agreement before and after Kenzie was born about girlfriends and my ex broke it. Do not have my daughter parading around with another woman especially the one who disrespected me.