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November 21st, 2011, 10:03 PM
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Gaby's Dad got his [now ex] girlfriend pregnant ,when she told him he told her to have an abortion, she said no... so he dumped her!

what a man, what a man.

His ex got my number of a mutual friend and she text me to tell me what happened... then he text me today to say he heard she'd text me and that she was trying to sh*t stir & could I please ignore it.

I'm so looking forward to the next 9 months & seeing how sh*t things turn out for him!

...... feels a little weird that Gaby is going to have a brother or sister that ISN'T anything to do with me.....
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November 22nd, 2011, 04:56 AM
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That is just wrong in so many ways

I honestly dont believe him (but i dont no him) when he says shes trying to start things..I feel like shes reaching out to you not only because they will be siblings but maybe she sees what dirt he really is?

I just cant believe he would leave because she refused an abortion

and who knows maybe this is a start to a new friendship?
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November 22nd, 2011, 08:48 AM
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Totally wrong ! Definetly would feel weird too in so many ways to have your kid to have another sibling out there that isn't yours .
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November 22nd, 2011, 10:20 AM
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you get use to it..although its alot different..dylan and jessie have a older sister and i dont look at her as a sister really..they see each other as brother/sister and as ava as their baby sister
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November 22nd, 2011, 10:29 AM
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It's actually kind of nice that she is reaching out to you. I know one of my big worries is that Max may have little brothers and/or sisters one day and never know about them, and that he may never know his big sister. I think it would be nice if you and his ex got along well enough that Gaby and her sibling could have a great relationship
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November 22nd, 2011, 09:40 PM
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Wow that's crazy. I know I will be hearing about another baby from Kenzie daddy soon.
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November 23rd, 2011, 01:17 PM
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That is ridiculous. What a jerk! Kaisen's dad's girlfriend is pregnant and due in early January. I think it's funny that he got her pregnant. He has no money and they live in a s h i t house. And he thinks it's ok to just keep reproducing. He will never learn. I am curious to see what happens.
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November 23rd, 2011, 07:58 PM
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That is ridiculous. What a jerk! Kaisen's dad's girlfriend is pregnant and due in early January. I think it's funny that he got her pregnant. He has no money and they live in a s h i t house. And he thinks it's ok to just keep reproducing. He will never learn. I am curious to see what happens.
mine is very similar except they have 3 kids together (she used to be our babysitter) LONG story and he has another one older than jake.

I just dont even think about it anymore. Jakes constantly telling me he wants a sister from me and steve
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November 28th, 2011, 09:43 AM
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I'm not a regular poster but I just wanted to add to this that my youngest daughter has an older brother, and her brothers mom reached out to me when I was pregnant (similar story of he was a good liar, I left him 5 months pregnant because I saw the real him and he said he wanted nothing to do with my daughter).

Anyways, her and I are now AWESOME friends! Honestly she is one of my best friends. We get together all the time and I think our relationship is really great for our kids, neither of them see their biological father so we are the only way they see each other and stay in each others lives.

I know that most likely isn't typical of being such close friends, but I just wanted to share my experience about why I think it's good to give her a shot, just be guarded in the beginning until you really get to know her.

And it was always very beneficial because unfortunately my daughters brother has a very rare form of childrens cancer But because of our excellent relationship I have been able to keep upto date and have the medical knowledge so I can get my daughter tested yearly and know to look for signs instead of being in the dark if I had no contact with them.

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December 5th, 2011, 11:30 PM
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Apparently they're back together??? LOL I have no idea what's going on, and to be honest i don't REALLY want to know...

If he ends up having nothing to do with the new baby, I will do what I can to make sure Gaby knows her brother or sister, but until things become obvious Im staying out of it
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December 6th, 2011, 04:22 AM
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thats weird?

i agree its best to stay out of it untill its 100% over with them!
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December 6th, 2011, 10:19 AM
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Definitely I wouldn't get involved with her unless it's 100% over between the 2 of them.
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December 7th, 2011, 07:15 PM
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Oh boy! Good luck.. awww gabby will have a brother or another sister!!!! How fun for her
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