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December 22nd, 2011, 06:33 AM
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I was just wondering if I'm the only one who has a hard time getting along with the father of their little one? I have a hard time picturing him as the father because he has never been there and doesn't even know Frederick.

And he's still rude as hell too. Called me spoiled and selfish on the phone when talking about moving on.
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December 22nd, 2011, 07:52 AM
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I have my moments with him. Things have been pretty good lately but that doesn't mean a whole lot things go good for a while then things get really bad really fast. No it's not just you.
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December 22nd, 2011, 09:11 AM
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I was going to have 'Frederick' pick out a present to give his father and I was going to buy it, but for him being a rude prick like that, completely out of line, Frederick can just color him a picture and i'll wrap it and call it good.
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December 22nd, 2011, 02:22 PM
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I get along with him sometimes but not very often. Hes only nice to me when he wants something.. the other times we are very rude and hateful to each other.
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December 23rd, 2011, 09:22 AM
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I used too then I got into a serious relationship and our "friendship" went down hill
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December 23rd, 2011, 09:33 AM
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I wonder how it will be when I end up in a serious relationship with someone.

And I'm glad to know, though its sad, that I'm not the only one who has a hard time getting along with their ex.
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December 23rd, 2011, 12:43 PM
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No, things now are awful between us. There can be a few nice texts between us here and there, but for the most part our relationship is non-existent. He claims he wants a good relationship, but I was the only one ever trying. After another one of his controlling, selfish incidents earlier this month, I told him I was done trying. He's making if very clear that he doesn't want to get along with me and I think a big part of that is because his GF won't allow him to get along with me. She's always doing things to pit us against each other.
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December 23rd, 2011, 08:00 PM
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I get along with him sometimes but not very often. Hes only nice to me when he wants something.. the other times we are very rude and hateful to each other.
but he is the hateful one, I never show him that side.
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December 27th, 2011, 09:57 AM
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Does FOB/Kiddos get visitation/overnight visits?
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December 27th, 2011, 10:30 AM
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Well when we were still in touch I would try the hardest to get along with him but didn't and now he is no longer in touch with either of us which has been 4 years since we have seen him . Mom showed pictures of how I had him meet the family looking at those pictures made me look at him as in angry like . If I seen him now oh after stopping the child support I would want to smack him in the face totally
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December 28th, 2011, 10:44 AM
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There have been times I wanted to yell at him but I didn't. In the long run, I suppose it's not worth it.
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December 28th, 2011, 12:14 PM
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K visits his father every Wednesday night for 3-4 hours. He also goes with his dad every other weekend from 7pm on Friday till 6:30pm on Sunday. FOB exercises most of his visitations, but not all.
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December 28th, 2011, 08:16 PM
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As of right now FOB doesn't have visitation, he is apparently sending me court papers but I have yet to see them. He isn't getting them alone until there is court ordered visitations arranged, he would just be spiteful enough to not return them and make me fight him for them.
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December 30th, 2011, 05:26 PM
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Nope! Never have! He is to immature!
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