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I'm just gonna jump in here and say that that probably won't change. He never put you first, your kids first or his wife. So why should that change just because he's about to have a daughter? And it's even easier for him since he doesn't live with you. He doesn't have to be home with you and the baby, he can come over when he pleases and stay as long as he pleases. It's easy for guys like him.
Kaisen never came first to FOB. When we were together it was always about his 3 older kids. I couldn't do anything with my son unless FOB's kids were with us. Kaisen was basically going to get screwed out of holidays because of FOB's kids. Now, FOB's GF, her kid, and the baby they have together comes first.
All you can do in a situation like that is just be there for your daughter. Hopefully her daddy won't be too much of a disappointment to her.